You should never ever put someone before yourself.....you are the Most Important Person in Your Life.....Please Do not think that it is a Selfish Thought, because if you are Happy and Proud of Yourself then Everything and Person around you will benefit , Hopefully....Also remember You Can Never Ever Lie to yourself....you can Kid Yourself what part you have played in a certain situation but like those around Only You Know the Truth....so if you are Honest with Yourself and those around you.....You can not be blamed for what others might Say or Do......Lastly, Do Not Assume things in life because if things do not go the way you planned life may become Very Difficult .......Always be Proud of Yourself and Who You Are and do not let anyone take that away from you under any circumstances xxxxxx