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Why did Netflix allow this film?

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latheritup · 11/09/2020 01:08

Please take a second to watch the video on this link, this is the final dance scene of the new movie on Netflix called Cuties.

mobile.twitter.com/MaryMargOlohan/status/1303908536553017349

I cannot understand why Netflix thought this was the right film to add to their selections. These are children.

There are several petitions going round to get this removed off their platform.

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DonkeySkin · 11/09/2020 07:06

Many posters here are being deliberately blind, because the truth is too uncomfortable.

The film is child pornography. That's its purpose, that's what it was made to be. It's not an accident. The sexually explicit dance scenes, the child nudity and other sexual scenes involving children - these were shot as masturbation material for paedophiles, and will certainly be used by paedophiles for that.

The other purpose of the film is to normalise the sexualisation and eroticisation of young girls. Hence it is not just masturbation material for paedophiles, it is propaganda for them too.

The black female Muslim director is a cover. She was hired as the 'face' of the film, just as the supposed 'exploring female empowerment and culture clash' storyline is a cover for showing lots of scenes with young girls nude or partially nude and acting out sexual situations.

Seriously, how dumb are people? So many people parroting 'the director is a black Senegalese woman' blah blah blah. As if that makes it OK to release a film that shows close-ups of little girls' crotches while they mime sexual acts. Of course the director is a woman. As if they'd hire a man to front this film. He'd be rumbled in a second.

If you ignore what people are telling you the film is about, and instead trust the evidence of your own eyes, this is plainly obvious. There is no non-nefarious reason to shoot the dance scenes in the obviously pornographic way they have been shot. it's not an accident that the scenes were shot that way. It's the purpose of the scenes. If you were revolted by the footage, it's not because you're too unsophisticated to get the director's vision, or because you are too prudish. It's because you're not a paedophile. You are not the audience for this.

BUT this is being released on Netflix to see how much you will tolerate. How far can they push the public with this material? If they get away with 'Cuties' (again, the title proves how much of this is IN PLAIN SIGHT), they will keep pushing the boundaries on how openly children can be eroticised in this culture. As well as the legal boundaries of what children can be directed to do or have done to them on film.

If a child can’t consent to sex acts, they shouldn’t be able to consent to pornography- especially giving the permanent nature of film.

Yes. This film is designed to push those boundaries, among others.

It's interesting that this film comes out in the same year as an Austrian film about a man who builds his own child sex android. That film has implied sex scenes, with nudity, between the man and the 'android', who is played by a real child. The child actress was required to film those scenes with the adult actor for that film, which was also (supposedly) conceived and directed by a young woman.

www.smh.com.au/culture/movies/melbourne-international-film-festival-dumps-android-child-sex-film-20200725-p55fdr.html

I think we will see more films of this nature in coming years. And every one of them will be directed by young women. Young female directors are the obvious cover for paedophiles to push this stuff into the mainstream.

Tomatoesneedtoripen · 11/09/2020 07:13

Reminds me of Little Miss Sunshine, superfreak, so inappropriate

Stripesgalore · 11/09/2020 07:15

The reviews on it are really bizarre, because they all say almost exactly the same thing, as if they are scripted.

Presumably because you have to engage in such massive cognitive dissonance to justify condoning this film that you have to parrot the same arguments to defend the indefensible.

73kittycat73 · 11/09/2020 07:16

Ok, that made me feel sick. Envy

GrapefruitsAreNotTheOnlyFruit · 11/09/2020 07:17

@DonkeySkin you have said what I was trying to say but with far more eloquence. Agreed.

Tomatoesneedtoripen · 11/09/2020 07:23

@HardStare

Little Miss Sunshine made the point better.
exactly
Motherofmonsters · 11/09/2020 07:26

It should not be okay for 11year olds to act out the below and have it filmed in this way

Why did Netflix allow this film?
Takingontheworld · 11/09/2020 07:28

What the actual fuck. How are they getting away with this?

TheGirlWithAPrince · 11/09/2020 07:28

Yes let's normalise pheadophelia through dance. Good job world good job. Disgusting

CuriousaboutSamphire · 11/09/2020 07:34

What good do you think the film could have done? Do you think that there are people who are in favour of child sexual exploitation who will watch it and change their behaviour? Don't be daft! I think the mums who encourage their daughters to do these things, beauty pageants etc, might have a rethink.

As for the full on conspiracy theory... not at all impossible... but I'd need to see the whole film to see the 'the child nudity and other sexual scenes involving children' - as I said, all I have seen are the posters and some clips, as portrayed in France/Sundance festival and Netflix.

Stripesgalore · 11/09/2020 07:38

It isn’t a beauty pageant.

Nicetableinnit · 11/09/2020 07:44

‘I genuinely have no idea what the true purpose of the film is.‘

Well before sending and signing petition people should really look yap what’s going on or watch the film.
It’s supposed to be a critique of the sexualisation of young girls and it is awful which is sort of the point. I suppose they’ve created the debate with the film in a way they wouldn’t have otherwise. I won’t be watching it.

grool · 11/09/2020 07:45

I don't understand how anyone can watch those clips and think it's in anyway ok.

Critiquing the explotation and hypersexualisation of young girls by exploiting and hypersexualizing girls and putting it on one of the worlds biggest platforms for every paedophile to access and get off on as long as they have a Netflix subscription?

Most of the world knows that child rape is wrong. We don't need to see a film of a child being raped to know it is wrong.

MorrisZapp · 11/09/2020 07:48

The clip is the most disturbing thing I've seen in a very long time. No context could possibly justify it. If we're meant to be appalled by the exploitation, why is it shot like an actual pop video, with cameras on their crutches etc? Their horrified mothers are shot from a distance and in a glancing way. The dance is shown up close going on and on well after its made its point.

The identity of the director is irrelevant.

Proudboomer · 11/09/2020 07:48

You don’t highlight child exploitation of young girls by sexualising young girls.
This film is peodofiles wet dream.

bibbitybobbitycats · 11/09/2020 07:49

It’s supposed to be a critique of the sexualisation of young girls

And the film is doing this by by...sexualising youg girls? That clip made me feel quite sick after about twenty seconds. Maybe that's the point of it, but all that was really needed as a frame or two, not a minute and a half.

cdtaylornats · 11/09/2020 07:50

I imagine the twitter poster for Americans is to contextualise it for people who have cheerleaders, beauty pageants for children and topless bars.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 11/09/2020 07:50

@Stripesgalore

It isn’t a beauty pageant.
I am aware... my point is that, along with ALL of the other possible discussions this film has already prompted, internet access, readily available porn, sexualisation of women in music industry, film industry etc etc, the mums who actively encourage their daughters to engage in pageants etc might also have a rethink.

Anything that normalises sexualisation of women, girls included, has to be discussed in relation to the harm it can and does do to children.

bibbitybobbitycats · 11/09/2020 07:50

was a frame or two.

IndiaMay · 11/09/2020 07:51

You only need to go on TikTok to see this is how little girls dance. Emulating music videos, little mix concerts and other TikTok 'stars'. I feel uncomfortable with the fact that child actors had to portray this but as far as I'm aware the film is a commentary piece designed to make the viewer think about the current situation the world is in when it comes to sexualisation of children.

Stripesgalore · 11/09/2020 07:54

Bringing in things like beauty pageants is an attempt to mask that this film is soft porn about 11 year olds.

ThunderSkies · 11/09/2020 07:56

I can’t stand it, but I don’t feel comfortable with a lot of young girls dance troupes anyway. And I’ve been called a prude for saying so. Adult group dancing on x-factor etc is only a step away from this. Little Mix etc (and pop singers/ dancers) have always pushed boundaries. Now the boundaries have been pushed so far that you have to wonder where it stops.

It’s like the old argument that gymnasts etc need to wear the skimpy clothes/ no underwear to 'show off the muscles' etc. yet the male gymnasts (with the same muscles) can wear leggings.

Littleheart5 · 11/09/2020 07:59

Good god, that clip is awful. No matter what the purpose of the movie is, some of the close ups of those girls ‘behinds’ just made me very very uncomfortable

NewAutumnName · 11/09/2020 08:05

I think sadly that lots of young girls use sexualised behaviour they have seen on Tic Toc Instagram and pop groups dressing like this and doing their strip tease routines which little girls copy.... Little Mix - personally if I had girls I wouldn't let them behave in this manner but many parents do and think it is ok. My friend shared some Tic Toc videos going around with little girls and it appears sexualisation of girls is common. Our primary school sent an email around about Tic Toc and its sexual content (chld abusers paradise)

At least I only have football to think about at present

NewAutumnName · 11/09/2020 08:07

In fact that is exactly how Little Mix dance - now since their main market is girls 7 ish and above --- there you go .... sadly Little Mix think it is appropriate and their fans copy them.

Our society has many faults and this shows one of them - grim

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