Bit of background, 3 DCs- Two girls from my previous marriage, one 8 month old baby. Partner’s mother lives nearby, increasingly he will decide to stay over at her house one night a week. Leaves in the evening, not back until the following afternoon. This really annoys me. I feel as if I’m left, literally “holding the baby”. None of my friends live nearby, and with Covid at the moment, not easy to organise an evening meet up either.
Am I being silly?!
I’m entirely ready to be told that I am! I don’t want to be controlling, or stop him going out, but I feel like once a week overnight is a bit much! He is/was an only child, and says that he just needs some down time, which I understand, but it’s really eating into what I see as “our” weekend time together. Please let me know your thoughts.
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to feel miffed at partner’s nights away
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Auberginehater · 09/09/2020 19:30
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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