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ladywintergarden · 03/09/2020 22:07

So I sent my DH of a very long time a naughty pic for the first time earlier and his response was.....
"I hope you only sent that to me!"
Why would he say that!
That's weird right??

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Wrenna · 03/09/2020 22:09

He was probably just shocked since you never did before and are married a long time. I have never done that and have been married 20 years, I could expect that exact reaction from my dh or “did you really send this to me?!”

DalzielandPaxo · 03/09/2020 22:10

Maybe he was a bit shocked and didn’t know what to say, you did say it was your first time doing it.

ladywintergarden · 03/09/2020 22:10

He knew what the deal was before it was sent... it was planned

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Boom45 · 03/09/2020 22:10

He probably meant he hoped you didnt do a "reply to all" type mistake. Not that weird, it's the kind of thing i might say in a light hearted way, especially if my DH sent it to me out of the blue.
(Tbf if I got a picture like that from my husband I'd ask what the fuck he was playing at but that's just me!)

Giganticshark · 03/09/2020 22:11

Non issue.
Your reaction is weird

ladywintergarden · 03/09/2020 22:13

@Giganticshark cool, thanks.

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user1473878824 · 03/09/2020 22:15

It’s just a joke unless he’s some sort of mad jealous bastard with form

Stannisbaratheonsboxofmatches · 03/09/2020 22:16

I would think that was a joke!

Sheknowsaboutme · 03/09/2020 22:18

I cant see what is weird. Apart from your reaction.

Jpowe · 03/09/2020 22:20

Something my husband would say, then I'd be in a blind panic checking 😂

ladywintergarden · 03/09/2020 22:21

That's fine, there was no reaction to him directly.... just the words in my head after that's all and a touch of overthinking.

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VenusTiger · 03/09/2020 22:24

To me, he's saying it's rather saucy and he hopes you only sent it to him. Nothing negative in that imo. It obviously did the trick.

LaurieSchafferIsAllBitterNow · 03/09/2020 22:26

I'd have replied..."Yes, just you. And the husband"

and then followed up with an "ooops!"

DalzielandPaxo · 04/09/2020 07:05

@LaurieSchafferIsAllBitterNow 😆

OP, honestly, it sounds like he didn’t really know how to react. If it’s your first time doing something like that he probably just felt a bit awkward. That’s not to say it wasn’t a great photo, he just may have not known quite how to respond. Not everyone is adept at dirty text chat!

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