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DH's 50th

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BlackbirdFirst · 30/08/2020 20:31

He wants to ask for this from his mother. AIBU to not like it? It would have to go in the bedroom. I'm not a prude, but her bush looks weird ....... [https://www.bonhams.com/auctions/25379/lot/165/?category=list]

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Sirzy · 31/08/2020 11:15

I think anything like that needs to be liked by both people before going up in the bedroom. It’s a shared space after all.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 31/08/2020 11:29

reminded me of a friend who used to buy expensive vintage coins for her father at christmas, birthdays, fathers day....
when I met him, having little idea what to talk to him about I asked about the coins - he wasn't that interested, Friend cheerfully said - in front of him - Oh, no, Dad's not really interested, but it's a good investment, I'd rather inherit the coins than a bunch of worn jumpers.

If it;s a painting that your husband really likes, and that is the kind of money that his Mother would spend on a gift, why not?
Does MiL want to adopt?

Serin · 31/08/2020 11:41

Are you selling these paintings OP?
Good way to advertise the sale Wink

FOKKYFC · 31/08/2020 11:43

He's wrong about the coins. These depreciate like fun. Although admittedly probably worth more than a few jumpers.

AryaStarkWolf · 31/08/2020 11:43

His mom is going to spend 3-5k on his birthday present?! woo

But yeah, I wouldn't fancy that hanging in my house

BlackbirdFirst · 31/08/2020 11:50

Not me selling them. There are things I dearly love to sell, but DH 'loves' them all

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xILikeJamx · 31/08/2020 12:20

According to Wiki:

"In hairdressing, an allonge is a wig with locks of hair reaching to the shoulders"

Might explain the bush...

BlackbirdFirst · 31/08/2020 13:22

@xILikeJamx

According to Wiki:

"In hairdressing, an allonge is a wig with locks of hair reaching to the shoulders"

Might explain the bush...

Bwaaaah, I'm telling him this!

Anyway I've said I cant live with period red as the main colour surrounding a bush.

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BlackbirdFirst · 16/09/2020 20:17

Well for an update- it sold for far over estimate and mil didnt binding the end.
Lucky escape

phew

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ShandlersWig · 22/09/2020 20:46

Swerved a bullet there OP!

Why can't he take up cycling like all the other middle aged men? Grin

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