Shut up

[Shutup2020]

Posting for traffic: Have you ever been told to shut up during sex?

No

Sounds kinda horny

No, but if I had I would have stopped. Sex for me is about emotion as well as physical gratification- and being told to shut up would kill the moment.

Been told to be more quiet (parents in the next room/baby sleeping) but NEVER been told to shut up.

Yeah actually.

We aren’t together anymore

Were you reading the shipping forecast though?

I don’t talk a lot during sex

No but I have shouted it repeatedly at my upstairs neighbours when they had sex every single bloody night for a month at 3 in the morning waking up my kids....... it didn't make them shut up🙄.

No but I have told my partner too when he says this bloody phrase he thinks is sexy but just annoys the crap out of me!

Nope but he's put his hand over my mouth, does that count? Haha.

It totally depends on delivery (can be hot) but given that you have to ask, it probably wasn't said or received in that way.

Lol, some of your replies have made me laugh, especially the loud, bonking, randy, upstairs neighbours

Just to clarify, it was said to me, during sex, as I was cumming. It was the aggression in his voice that got me.

@Shutup2020

Lol, some of your replies have made me laugh, especially the loud, bonking, randy, upstairs neighbours

Just to clarify, it was said to me, during sex, as I was cumming. It was the aggression in his voice that got me.

that's not good!

If someone gets aggressive during sex then it should be ended. What was the reason he said that, were you being theatrical?

As a younger, inexperienced woman, I used to say "fuck me!" because that's what the women in porn said. One bloke politely responded "I am!".

"Shut up" is horrible though. Sex is a place to be comfortable and relaxed, not shamed. If he's making you feel crap then (and I've never said this before but...) LTB.

I have said it, probably using different words though...

When the chap is talking (at critical moments) about ridiculous random subjects such as painting the shed, double glazing problems or the Euro/£ exchange rates 😂

really? they said shut up? :S i dont think ive ever been told to be quiet.. if my voice needed to be quieter i just had a hand placed over my mouth haha which i was fine with and it was done nicely not angrily :S

@ToTheTwees

As a younger, inexperienced woman, I used to say "fuck me!" because that's what the women in porn said. One bloke politely responded "I am!".

"Shut up" is horrible though. Sex is a place to be comfortable and relaxed, not shamed. If he's making you feel crap then (and I've never said this before but...) LTB.

Ha! Brilliant.

I agree with the second paragraph. I've been shushed, but generally because of other people in the house, but never been told to shut up. That in itself is pretty aggressive.

No, I wasn't being theatrical. I'm actually quite quiet during sex. This is the same guy who asked me, another time, whether I was enjoying it as I was so quiet. There were other power games going on, this was the final straw.

It's over. I took the 'coward's' way out and ghosted him. I just couldn't be doing with the drama. He was one of those who would either punish me with the silent treatment or rage at me. Neither were pleasant.

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend prefers me to make a bit of noise. Sounds like this guy deserves to be ghosted.

Well done! He sounds like a complete twat!

I hate to throw the term 'narc' around, but nothing I ever did was good enough.

Seven months of ever-so-slowly knocking my confidence...

We didn't sleep together for months (my choice) and he convinced me it was my fault...ah, you know how it goes..

The End.

@Skang

Were you reading the shipping forecast though?

And if so was it Dogger ?