I posted a while ago. Husband announced he was leaving day before a Fathers Day for 27 year old at his company. They had been friendly/banter since Jan. But only met up in lockdown and he felt so
Guilty he had to tell me before embarking on affair! He’s told me it’s over it doesn’t want a divorce. Is this for financial reasons?? The only explanations for it all that I get is I’ve fallen for someone else.
We had a lovely home 3 children 16,13 and 9.
Since he left he has just been prioritizing this woman never available for the kids on the phone. She won’t let him communicate with me it’s her way or the highway. He’s now living in a flat 1.5 hours away next to his work as about to lose his license for gaining points on way to see her as she lives about 4 hours away. She’s been off the whole summer holidays.
At the start time did not handle things well desperately trying to get answers. I felt so low doctor came to see me. I am gradually feeling stronger took the kids away for a week by myself and coping with all
The stuff at home. I just feel so sad as I was happy with life before. I don’t feel depressed or so tearful anymore. It’s just hard when someone leaves with zero explanation. I think he thinks in time everything will be fine as that’s what she constantly tells him. But the kids barely won’t to see him. Eldest son refusing to talk to his dad. It’s so out of character thought it was a midlife crisis. But to be honest it’s embarassing and deserve better. I am so close to his parents and they are being amazing. We were married 16 years together for 20.my husband is 41. He has a high up job and just feel like I have been traded in for a younger model. I work part time and have done everything for the kids. I just don’t understand why people treat each other like this. I just wish we never had to see him again. Sorry for waffling I don’t know what I am asking really. It’s the shock that’s the word. He started saying he could still come over mow the lawn, help with admin but to me honest I would prefer to crack on, on my own. It’s just never saw this coming and my future looks so bleak. I turn 40 next week and feel gutted I am now on my own. The OW sent him
Very demanding texts with her conditions and non/ negotiables that he had to meet when dumping us. Husband now says he’s gone self employed at his work! Which all seems dodgy as he’s in the financial sector. I actually feel scared of him and this OW as she is in a high up job too. I am going to speak to a solicitor next week. Just feel like ex husband and her are going to make my life hell. Actually feel scared of them. He was a good dad before but the kids feel dumped he says he hasn’t left them but he has in my opinion. Think he blames me for Them not wanting to see him. OW allows him
To spend 1 day at the weekend with them. It’s rubbish they deserve better. When they are back at school he will be no use in the week as so far away. I just need to get it all out of my mind.