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Godmother duty

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midlifeangst · 20/08/2020 22:20

Father of darling god daughter has left mother of god daughter . Not heard from him since he moved on and started a horrible custody battle. Today he called , withheld number, and shouted that I dare not to forget her birthday. That was all he said but I feel quite threatened. I had planned to send her a card and gift and didn’t need reminding. She’s 11, I have never missed anything before. Why is it so unsettling?

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Mumdiva99 · 20/08/2020 22:23

because he's supposed to be your friend but isn't behaving like one.....and he's not the person you thought you knew.

(Why would he even think you would forget?)

StatementKnickers · 20/08/2020 22:25

Ugh! Whose friend were you first? Block his number.

FudgeBrownie2019 · 20/08/2020 22:31

It's unsettling because he's someone you felt close to at one point and now it turns out he's a bit of a wanker.

Block, block, block. Text him first and tell him MN think he's an arsehole, though.

midlifeangst · 21/08/2020 07:34

Exactly shows his true colours. A manipulative nasty piece of work. No longer unsettled and freaked out, just bloody angry!!

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Nonotthisagain · 21/08/2020 08:47

Well that solves the problem of which half of the couple you keep as a friend very easily.

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