My 4 year-old son usually sleeps all night but currently has a cough and given the hot weather, has been waking in the night.
He just woke crying at 1am. My DP went into his bedroom first, shouting, 'what's wrong!!!!!'
I followed next, with a soft, 'are you ok?' giving him a cuddle and holding his hand. Aibu to think that a 4-year old waking in the night might be having nightmares or similar and shouldn't be met with being shouted at!?