I'm 32 weeks pregnant. We were having work done on our house. We have a 2 year old.
This week we have stayed with friends because the builders were knocking down walls. DH was at our house every day to work and then came back to our friends. Our cat usually sleeps in the areas being done so I suggested letting her sleep anywhere else to minimise mess and upset for her.
I've come back today to find he has been leaving the door to the areas being done open every night, so dust has travelled all over the house and the cat has made it worse.
Toddler hasn't being sleeping well. I asked DH to listen out for him one evening so I could have a bath (I'm doing 95% of wake ups). I came out to find DS very upset - DH had had the monitor on low and 'hadnt heard him'- took me 45 mins to get him off to sleep
DH took DS shopping this afternoon while.i cleaned. I said we really needed fruit and bread. He's come back with 4 green bananas and nothing else. When I pointed this out he has stormed out the house to get more because I 'pick him up on everything'.
This morning I expressed concern that if the baby arrives early he wont be able to come.as he has work commitments. He said 'not a lot i can do about that'.I was looking for some constructive help for a back up plan.
I'm fucking exhausted and he's doing my head in.
AIBU?
To be fed up of DH
OhToBeASeahorse · 15/08/2020 17:48
Am I being unreasonable?
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