AIBU to wonder how I can find out what time I got married?

[ForgetfulAsFuck]

Well this is embarrassing. DH and I are about to celebrate a wedding anniversary and I want to get him a present that involves the exact time we got married (it's a star map thingy of what the stars looked like on the day. DH likes star thingies )

I know the date we got married but can't remember the time. Does anyone have any bright ideas of how I could find this out? It is 20 years ago so my usual No. 1 strategy to find shit out (namely, looking at my phone) won't work We didn't have invites or anything like that. We have some photos but they wouldn't show the time. My wedding certificate is probably somewhere in the loft but I can't get in there anyway.

Any other bright ideas?

Ironically DH will remember the time but there is no way I could ask him without making it obvious I am plotting something. I give everything away and I really really want this to be a surprise.

@OhTheRoses it's nice you have such lovely memories. Our weddings sound very different though, ours was really just a quick ceremony in a registry office with no music/speeches and the minimal wording/vows, we aren't religious (and our families are of very different religions anyway) and it was more about just changing our legal status, as civil ceremonies weren't a thing then.

I absolutely love being married actually - I was "it's just a piece of paper" type person beforehand, DH asked me to marry him six weeks after we met and I said there was no point in marriage. Then we decided to have DC and had various legal issues that marriage would easily solve so we married.

Your wedding sounds lovely as it clearly brings you so much happiness to remember it - we sound as if we are equally happily married these days whatever the weddings were like