So DH and I had our first DC in June 2020, we have decided to have another biological child and both agree that we want to start trying before DC is 1 (2021) and decided to start TTC after my March period. We have no specific reason to wait till March other than it's the time first month we thought of!
Would I be unreasonable to ask DH if we could start trying at Christmas 2020? I know it's quite soon after DC1 but I personally hate being pregnant and want to get that portion over with as soon as possible and then be able to enjoy our family for a few years before we go onto adopt (it's always been on our hearts to adopt after having biological children).
Before I put it to my husband I want to get other people's opinions, AIBU to consider this?