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AIBU?

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To tell her to STFU

5 replies

PotteryLottery · 27/07/2020 22:31

My attractive sister repeatedly boasts that she doesn't wear make up for Zoom meetings whereas all her female colleagues do, as do I.

I look rough as without makeup. People tell me i look tired or ask me if there is something wrong (I think it is the dark circles under my eyes).

AIBU to tell her she is lucky she doesn't feel the need to, but she shouldn't judge others for doing so.

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MsEllany · 27/07/2020 22:52

Confused how could you possibly unreasonable? She’s your sister, tell her to shut up and stop being so judgemental and up herself.

Oysterbabe · 27/07/2020 22:57

I don't wear make up.
I probably look rough.
I don't give a fuck.
I'll wear makeup as soon as men are required to plaster shit all over their face to avoid judgment.

AnneLovesGilbert · 27/07/2020 23:00

Is she boasting or judging? They’re different things. If she wants to brag about her natural beauty then fair enough, if she’s judging others for wearing make up then you can be annoyed but I can’t see how swearing at her will make you feel better or change her mind - she’ll shrug it off as you being jealous, which you are.

Easier to shrug it off.

Sally872 · 27/07/2020 23:00

I don't wear make up for zoom calls as too busy. Look rough but not bothered. Clean tidy and prepared for the meeting we are having. Nobody seems to notice/care.

Your sister is being unreasonable to comment on what others do though.

Davros · 27/07/2020 23:08

Oysterbabe speaks the truth

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