Update on my situation. I'll try and put a link up to my previous thread for anyone interested.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3975979-When-does-it-become-an-affair
I've started to 'cool off' the intensity of the texts and have had no contact all weekend. On Friday the only contact we had was purely professional. I think this is the way to go.
But, I am a very sociable person, I struggle, for example when I'm texting anyone I always struggle not to respond to even the last goodbye text (yes I'm that annoying friend). I feel like I'm being unkind and mean not to respond or to be a bit cool with messages.
Tell me I'm doing the right thing please.