Friend says I'm being "arsed" aibu to think I'm not?

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Today me and a friend are going to a near by city for shopping and lunch.
She asks me to book somewhere for lunch last week.
I asked her what type of food she wanted and she said "pub grub"
So I found a place and booked it.
She asked to see the menu
It has bangers n mash/fish and chips/all day breakfast/burgers /mince n dumplings etc
Plus sandwiches /toasties/wraps and salads
Her response "hmm is that the whole menu"
I said yes ..
She said there's not much on ?
I said to her you said you wanted pub grub
She replied "there's no jacket potatoes "
I said "you said pub grub"
She said "yes nice pub grub"
So I said ..ok what meal do you fancy ?
She said "I don't really know,pub grub"
So I said ..ok well why don't you have a look because I've spent all week looking and you can't decide.
She replied
"No need to be arsey,I told you pub grub"
Aibu here to think she's a bit annoying ?

Just got back.
What a miserable day.
There was other options on the menu including lasagne/chicken Kiev etc
She ended up ordering a lasagne then moaned al day about the weather.
Complaining she was wet then hot then arguing with me.
What a day

Why are you friends with her OP? She sounds like a PITA.

I bet she isn't aware of it.

My best friend from uni ghosted me (years later) and I think it must have been because I was a PITA

She sounds a bit daft!

“Pub grub” is extremely vague anyway and would mean different things to different people - if she wanted jacket potatoes why not just say so???

I hate people who don’t want to do any of the organising but are more than happy to do all of the criticising. Let me guess - is she also one of those people who likes a surprise, but never the actual surprise itself?

This reminds me of a thread on here a few years back when a woman asked her partner to get her a bar of ‘nice chocolate’ from the shop. He bought Galaxy. Apparently he should have known that ‘nice chocolate’ means Green and Blacks.

Sounds like she didn't really want to have the day out tbh.

Sounds like a crappy day

Does spud u like still exist? I love a jacket potato

She sounds annoying!

I love a jacket spud in fact that's what we're having for tea but I wouldn't class it as pub grub. Why on Earth didn't she say she'd a hankering for a spud before she asked you to book anywhere.

Am I the only one that sees Spud U Like and remembers Victoria Wood?

@gottastopeatingchocolate reminds me of Wayne and Waynetta and their child Spuduliky.

I remember their little plastic spoons with a potato with a face on the top

They went bust about 18 months ago.

Nooooooooooo

A fkin jacket spud
What a treat 😂

Honestly don't get me wrong.
I love a jacket potato but I wasn't thinking it was pub grub.
She moaned all day about everything
She's snappy,shouted at the bar staff in the pub.
I was embarrassed

She sounds like a knob head

Why

Do

You

Put

Up

With

Her?

Seems pretty clear that was your last ever outing with her.

Drive by her house and lob a potato through the window

@PablosHoney 😂😂

But why do you put up with it OP?

Is she always like this?

Do you have other friends?

She shouted at the staff? Bin her off, OP. She sounds awful.

She says it's her anxiety.
I don't really know much about her condition.
I try and be a good friend but sometimes you walk on eggshells for the fear of upsetting her.

Did she want 'nice pub grub' or did she want a jacket potato, because they are not the same thing? You're not being unreasonable OP.