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Am I being unreasonable ??

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rhia22 · 15/07/2020 11:14

I'm currently 29 weeks pregnant with my first baby, I got pregnant on the coil and I'm 22, was a huge shock and quite a traumatic experience tbh!
I have a friend who has become quite obsessed with my pregnancy to the point other friends have commented that when we are together she wants to talk about nothing else!

Said friend has started asking me about contraception for herself and telling me she'd be "sooo worried" if she wasn't on anything... which i thought was a bit insensitive considering what had happened to me as she does have a nice mother and other friends she could have spoke about this issue with. She has also made numerous comments about my pregnancy telling me not to lie on my stomach or one time I pushed my stomach (gently) and she gasped and told me off !! I responded saying it's my baby and nobody will look after him better than me but this really annoyed me to be honest!!

Anyway, she has started texting me a lot like 3x a day some days asking me questions about her life and boyfriend (who is horrible to her btw) which usually Id be fine answering/giving advice but with so much going on in my life i'm finding it so difficult as she wants so much from me all the time !! I don't know if i'm being unreasonable to be annoyed that she doesn't seem to think to take her problems to another friend who isn't heavily pregnant but consistently to me numerous times a day even when i don't reply ! i know she is well meaning so don't want to say anything to upset her but i need some space, it really takes up so much of my brain that i want to use to prepare for my baby!!

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