My sister split up with her husband early this year and for reasons communication from stbx to DC is by video and audio message.
The end of one audio message is "I have bought you presents, but first i need to see a happy video from all of you (DC names) all of you saying that you are happy that you are going to get presents and once I see the video I will (send them to you)"
Sis did not play this part of the message to the DC as she did not want to make them beg and instead sent stbx videos of DC playing and saying love you to daddy.
Stbx sent another message saying love you back and talking about the videos that were sent and at the end he says " I asked (last time) and I am waiting for your video saying that you do want presents from daddy because I've got some presents for you (vague description of presents - a large one small one fun one ect) can you send me a video saying yes daddy yes I'm happy that you want to give me presents and I want them, when I see this I will give them to you"
Is this controlling and my sister right to not play these or are we being unreasonable to think so?
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To think this is a weird, oddly specific and controlling request from ex
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Musereader · 10/07/2020 19:59
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Am I being unreasonable?
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