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I just accidentally created a group on Messenger with my two ex-boyfriends,panicked and left the group

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blanche85 · 08/07/2020 11:51

O. M. G.

Please help me to feel better.

I HATE Facebook! I haven't actively used Facebook for years,but have the Messenger App as I sometimes get the odd message...

Anyway,for some reason,I decided to open the Messenger App and clicked on a conversation from my ex. We haven't spoken for about two years. Then,somehow I managed to accidentally send a thumbs up! I then panicked and then somehow changed the conversation colour?!!! Which came up as 'blanche has changed the conversation colour' and I was then like 'ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!' and then....god knows how....I managed to create a group with him and my other ex!

Oh the shame. I immediately left the group,but now,as I've left it...i seemingly can't get back in to delete it? So they're know in this sad little group together? Wondering why on earth I've suddenly randomly created this group and then left it!

Bloody hell

OP posts:
Callipygion · 08/07/2020 20:09

I’m crying here 😂😂😂😂

PoodleMoth · 08/07/2020 20:16

😂

everythingthelighttouches · 08/07/2020 20:20

I’ve just had a good chuckle out loud and DS asked me what was so funny 😂

Starlightstarbright1 · 08/07/2020 20:24

@BendingSpoons

I think this thread has the makings of a Classics thread. Crying at some of these!
I was thinking the same .

I left Mn all afternoon after reading this thread - nothing would top it.

Staffy1 · 08/07/2020 20:36

That gave me a good laugh. I wonder if they’ve started a conversation. Don’t worry, you’ll laugh about it one day :)

HelpMeFindAName · 08/07/2020 20:45

I honestly think this is the funniest thread I've read on here. Thanks for the laugh! @blanche85 Grin

Luckyonetwo · 08/07/2020 20:59

Your my new hero.. this is the most I’ve laughed all day!! Grin

CaptainAthena · 08/07/2020 21:08

@Roussette your wildly inappropriate nephew text made me full-body cringe 😂😂 Poor you!

Jumbogirl · 08/07/2020 21:10

So funny!

Roussette · 08/07/2020 21:19

Captain it was a few years ago but I'm still cringing! I'm sure everyone knows that frantic button pressing to try and stop something happening, even whilst knowing it's too late !

This thread has honestly had me in stitches. The guttering man, garden bench man and a husband in a group has finished me off Grin

BeNiceToYourSister · 08/07/2020 21:20

Bless you OP, this has made my evening! Grin

Ishihtzuknot · 08/07/2020 21:24

Haha thanks for the laugh OP, change your profile for a month and hope they don’t have a clue who you are.
I was stalking an ex once (or twice..) and somehow friend requested his new girlfriend and her mum I hope even to this day they didn’t realise and I’d managed to cancel before they realised Blush

TJ17 · 08/07/2020 21:25

@Northernsoullover this killed me 😂😂😂

"Oh I've done worse.. stalked my ex on Facebook (drunk) only I didn't use the search bar. I used my status update. Woke up to see 'Bob Smith' in big letters on my timeline. Someone had actually liked it. This is one of many reasons I no longer drink alcohol."

blanche85 · 08/07/2020 21:27

What a turnaround - I was feeling like the cringiest,most awkward person on Earth this morning - but all of your stories have honestly made my day!

Especially the tagging yourself in a vague acquaintances child's school photo Grin

OP posts:
POP7777777 · 08/07/2020 21:27

I have tears! Omg! I'm so sorry for you, honestly, but I can't stop laughing!

TJ17 · 08/07/2020 21:29

@blanche85

And just to add - who has the time or care to change conversation colours anyway?

And why deliver that (undesired) choice as a notification?!

Ffs I'm heavily pregnant and nearly actually wet myself 😂😂😂
TJ17 · 08/07/2020 21:29

@blanche85

And just to add - who has the time or care to change conversation colours anyway?

And why deliver that (undesired) choice as a notification?!

Ffs I'm heavily pregnant and nearly actually wet myself 😂😂😂
TJ17 · 08/07/2020 21:30

@Cocolapew

This thread is hilarious. I definitely believe it, I managed to make a group with the bloke who cleaned my gutter (not an euphemism), someone I messaged about a garden bench and DH the other night. I don't realise anything was amiss until DH phoned me from work asking who these people were.
Oh stop I can't take any more 🤦🏼‍♀️😂😂😭😭😭🤦🏼‍♀️😂😂😂
user1471466920 · 08/07/2020 21:32

So embarrassing for you, poor you, but absolutely hilarious...sorry 🙈

Batmanandbobbin · 08/07/2020 21:36

Thank you I’ve had a shit day this has made me laugh so much!!!

Redcrayons · 08/07/2020 21:36

Oh I've done worse.. stalked my ex on Facebook (drunk) only I didn't use the search bar. I used my status update. Woke up to see 'Bob Smith' in big letters on my timeline. Someone had actually liked it. This is one of many reasons I no longer drink alcohol

Also me. I wasn’t even drunk, so managed to delete it seconds later.

I deleted FB off my phone before my last works Christmas do as a precautionary measure.

Bobbybobbins · 08/07/2020 21:45

I am in hysterical tears reading this thread. My neighbours must think I've been drinking.

Bless you all! 😂

NaePies · 08/07/2020 21:53

Another one who has had a shit day and really needed this thread
Honestly laughing so much at you all

Thanks Flowers

keepingtheplantsalive · 08/07/2020 21:55

I've friend requested everyone on my suggested list, after having a couple of vinos. I only realised the next day when a couple had accepted my friend requests and I then had to go and retract all the others. 😬

user1471466920 · 08/07/2020 21:57

Best thread ever 😂 sore laughing 😂