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AIBU?

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Male approaches on MN?

6 replies

Tryingmybest1234 · 07/07/2020 12:57

Hi everyone, I posted something on here last week about being in an unhappy marriage. Under a different name. Since then I’ve had several DMs from different men who have used this place as basically a pick up place. One in particular got very saucy straight away.

AIBU to think that this was a safe place to post and not expect to be hit on?

Or am I just being a prude. I feel like they could be using people’s vulnerability as a way in.

Has anyone else had this experience?

OP posts:
LockdownLump · 07/07/2020 12:58

Eurgh gosh. How gross!!! Sorry that has happened to you OP.

vodkaredbullgirl · 07/07/2020 12:59

Did you report them?

CuriousaboutSamphire · 07/07/2020 12:59

Report them to MNHQ and tell them to fuck off! The men that is, not MNHQ!!

Un-bloody- believeable though! What makes them think that would work!?!?! Or is it their imaginations... thinking of you reading their lovely messages?

Blech!

Pelleas · 07/07/2020 13:01

No, it's 'not in the spirit of Mumsnet' at all. If you wanted approaches from men, you'd join a dating site. I hope you reported the PMs.

ikeptgoing · 07/07/2020 13:10

Definitely report them to MNHQ as thats not ok. This isn't a dating site and it's creepy to use your vulnerability to send inappropriate messages. I hope they ban them

DotDotDotty · 07/07/2020 13:12

Definitely report them!

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