Hi I dont really know what to think and it might be hormones because weve not long had a baby but I get the feeling that partner is being sneaky a few days after our daughter was born he went back to work and when he came home it was the usual how was your day etc and he said it had been quiet but I noticed during the day that he had been on Facebook so I asked if he had spoken to anyone and he said no . His phone had died at work so when he charged it and switched it on a message came through from this woman on Facebook and i said who's that i thought you hadnt spoken to anyone and he just kind of said ooh it's this woman from work so i said why are you talking to her on Facebook and why lie about it he didnt say anything about it so when he went for a shower i looked at the messages (hes always said I can look in his phone if I want to) the problem is there were no messages every single message had been deleted what would you do