Waves to fellow residents in South Yorkshire, especially those in the Penistone area.
Sorry @DilemmaADay, this is a bit of a long post, but I hope you find it useful.
Every town and city has less salubrious areas, and to write off a whole town as a shit hole is unfair. Did you know that 80% of the area covered by Barnsley Metropolitan Borough Council is rural?
All the villages to the West of Barnsley are lovely. Cawthorne is really nice. The villages with ofsted outstanding primary schools are: Cawthorne C of E, Penistone St John’s, Silkstone Common Junior and Infants (which also has an award-winning orchestra who have played at the Albert Hall. The music teacher won Classic FM primary school music teacher of the year and now has a well deserved MBE for services to education. She is truly inspirational.) and Thurgoland C of E, and Thurlstone. The rest, apart from Silkstone Primary (which I was shocked to read is now requiring improvement) are all ofsted good.
It is much harder for a secondary school to reach outstanding status, and Penistone Grammar has been ofsted good for several years and so has Horizon College. Penistone Grammar has an excellent 6th form with a well above average score that compares very well against Greenhead College.
As @BikeRunSki has said Penistone Grammar School (grammar in name only, but a rather good comprehensive) is oversubscribed, and families that moved to villages 3 or 4 miles away are becoming concerned that they may no longer be in the catchment area as there are plans to build hundreds of new houses in Penistone (which the residents are fighting against)
Penistone itself is a market town. It has a Co-op, Spar and Tesco, an independent cinema, several shops and cafes, and a number of new bars and eating places. And if you like Thai food there is a brilliant Thai restaurant in High Flatts. We also have Yummy Yorkshire with their award-winning ice cream, and now a restaurant, and Cannon Hall Farm, farm shop and restaurant in Cawthorne.
The major downside is the local MP Miriam Cates (Tory ☹) who so far has voted with the government to allow chlorinated chicken (this is a farming community
), and against weekly corona virus testing for NHS staff 
Dependent on how many people continue to work from home, the commute from the Penistone area to Sheffield can be a nightmare or straightforward. Penistone Road has a gazillion sets of traffic lights that have an annoying habit of turning to red just as you approach them. There are hourly trains to Sheffield from Penistone and Silkstone Common, but they are run by Northern Fail Rail.
If your partner ends up working in Barnsley or Wakefield the drive from the West of Sheffield is awful. The traffic through the centre of Sheffield is a nightmare, and Sheffield Parkway gets very snarled up.
Here is a link to local schools information:
www.compare-school-performance.service.gov.uk/schools-by-type?step=default&table=schools®ion=370&la-name=barnsley&geographic=la&for=16to18