I realise the thread title is cryptic but I'm hoping that anyone who encouraged me to leave my abusive DH will see this (involving a cigarette).
I had to request for MN to delete my post as somebody I know saw it and time ex DH.
I just wanted to let you know I'm all okay and still going strong at the new home (you'll know what I'm talking about).
I'm not allowed to start a new thread with the same posting as my previous one so I'd like to keep this one upbeat and positive.
Love to you all xz