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Boyfriend is going on night out tomorrow

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DunDunDunnnn · 03/07/2020 16:02

Hi,
Boyfriend is going out with his mates for the pubs reopening.
AIBU to feel off about this.
He sometimes comes to sit in my family's garden.
I have 2 little sisters (8 and 9) and a father with asthma and both parents overweigjt (I only say this because some say coronavirus is worse if you're overweight).

I've told him if he goes out I wouldnt be comfortable him coming over for 2 weeks, but he says i'm mothering him and that all his other mates are going out and that we can still socially distance when we see each other so it's fine.

But i'm not too sure

OP posts:
AQuietC0ffee20 · 04/07/2020 09:51

People can go on holiday to Spain, Italy, France & go to bars & cafes

The Government is not going to keep paying forever for people NOT to work

If people stick to the social distancing rules there is no reason why you cannot support your local cafe, bar, restaurant

You don't have to meet your boyfriend in your garden. Meet somewhere else & continue social distancing

GabsAlot · 04/07/2020 10:55

is he one of thise that queued from 6 today to get a pint

Persiaclementine · 04/07/2020 10:58

Well with every body back at work and having to get on with normal life I dont see why you've got an issue. If you were pregnant then maybe I could see an issue in it but its supposedly safe for people to go to the pub now so hes not doing anything wrong

MargotB7 · 04/07/2020 11:03

GabsAlot

He's going out tonight. Read the title.

unchienandalusia · 04/07/2020 11:27

I think I'm missing something. What's the problem? Asthma is no longer in the critically vulnerable list. Shielding is being relaxed. But even so you say he's only visiting in the garden and social distancing? So how is he going out affecting your parents risk?

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