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womens magazine 'shock' stories are they really real ?

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romeolovedjulliet · 30/06/2020 19:44

such thrilling titles like 'he shagged my mum then killed our neighbour' 'he raped me, i had quads but i love him' and such rubbish. the mags really have gone down the last upteen years judging by the titles. if this shit was written on here ifwould get deleted as troll fodder.
aibu to think this way ?

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Sparklesocks · 30/06/2020 19:48

I think it might be a mix of fact and fiction, and maybe some stories have been fluffed up to appear more scandalous.

I read a story in one of them once where the headline was something like ‘MY LOWEST POINT WAS STRIPPING FOR 20P‘ but in the actual story she was drunk in a pub, did a quick gyrating type dance to make her friends laugh and a bloke threw 20p at her as a joke.

Cherrybakewellard · 30/06/2020 19:50

I keep telling my friend she could make a load of money out of her life with Take a break etc.
Her ex had a son with another woman, led a double life. Called the son with OW the same name as he called the son his had with my friend. Shock
She only found out when she face stalked the mutual grandmother

altforvarmt · 30/06/2020 19:59

Sometimes it's real, scarily enough. My friend's stepdad really did have a relationship with a schoolgirl he met because he was a school bus driver, and my friend's mum sold her story to Chat magazine.

deste · 30/06/2020 20:32

I remember reading a story and thinking that it sounded familiar. When I read the grandchild’s name I knew it was the same person. The daughter told me about her mum who had written the story but her mums version was a bit different from the one the daughter told me. The mum and partner needed money so I imagine that’s why she wrote to the magazine. I think the daughters version was the true version.

Laaalaaaa · 30/06/2020 20:39

You only need to read some of the ridiculous posts on here. Then again the posts on here could easy be made up...

PlanetSlattern · 01/07/2020 00:11

They are real, though sometimes unrecognisable from a tarted-up headline. The people featured get a "readback" to ensure they're happy with the details and the way it's been written, love rats are given right of reply and it's all legally approved. If children are mentioned, checks are made to ensure both parents give their consent (if custody is shared). Waivers are signed. A lot of work goes on in the background to produce these magazines.

CoRhona · 01/07/2020 01:08

I was at school with twins who appeared on Jeremy Kyle, I think some people have a fascination with seeing themselves in print or on TV.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 01/07/2020 02:07

Some people do have very, very 'other' or unfortunate lives, but there probably aren't quite as many as you'd think, as the stories get recycled repeatedly.

As Sparklesocks said, they sensationalise them by twisting terms and happenings as much as they can. The headline might scream 'I was a teenage mum of twins!' and show a picture of a 13yo in a school uniform, but it turns out that she was actually 19 by the time she had the babies; or 'He kicked me until I was black and blue!' and, whilst it's still distressing, it will turn out to be a violent toddler son, when you were clearly meant to assume it was a husband/boyfriend.

Notice that even the most harrowing stories always end with an exclamation mark - and, as Dave Gorman pointed out, they always feature an attractive cover model all made up and with a big beaming smile in the middle of all of these tales of human misery!

I haven't read them for years now, but I did used to be hooked glance from time to time as a cultural reference point. (Grin) I liked the agony uncle (David something) in Take A Break, who always doled out usually quite obvious advice in the style of Sir Laurence Olivier!

However, the best bit always had to be the 'Readers' Brainwaves' tips pages. Rita from Somerset would be hailed a genius for sharing her amazing discovery that you could use a few sheets of toilet paper if you'd run out of tissues; or Chelsea from Renfrewshire would enlighten the world that you could 'save £££s' by washing out a used baked bean tin, filing down the sharp edges, finding some old Christmas giftwrap, cutting it to size, carefully gluing it around the side, adding more glue over the giftwrap, glitter and a bow to give you a beautiful and unique festive pen-holder to impress all of your friends - save you grabbing a nice one off the shelf from Poundland. They always seemed to have plenty of spare glue lying around the house....

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 01/07/2020 02:16

The standard photos accompanying the harrowing stories, though - and the captions.

  1. Raving it up in her glad-rags at a disco - caption: "Life waas so much fun back then - little could I have known";
  2. Hand over a wide-open mouth as she points at the devastating letter/photo/other shocking evidence (surprisingly often a pair of lacy knickers or grubby y-fronts) - caption: "I learned the devastating news" or "I found the devastating evidence";
  3. Standing on a bridge or sea-shore, palm on her forehead, looking far into the distance - caption: "Me, trying to move on from it all and hoping for a brighter future".
chatnicknameyousuggested · 01/07/2020 02:39

Ex DH's sister was an ex army wife who sold a tale of a Saucy Romp with Bugle Boys to a magazine. I think she got 135 quid.
She then got threatened with legal action as she also sold the same story to a rival magazine.
I work in law in a foreign country and she asked me to represent her. I had to decline.

isabellerossignol · 01/07/2020 02:45

They don't put much effort into proof reading. They're always full of clangers like 'we met aged 18, and he died in a car accident at the age of 20 not knowing I was pregnant with twins. Those 5 years we had together were the happiest of my life'. I often wonder if those are left there deliberately just to emphasise the improbability of the story being true.

Sittingontheveranda · 01/07/2020 03:05

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll The 'tips and hints' are the best :). I just searched for some and one came up 'If your hands are cold, hardboil some eggs and pop them in your pockets when you leave the house. Your hands will be lovely and toasty and you'll also have a ready made snack when you get hungry'. :).

Another one suggested if you are holding a dinner party and run out of mint sweets, squeeze some toothpaste onto a parchment sheet and freeze it. Your guests will never know the difference :).

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 01/07/2020 03:05

"I'd heard rumours about him doing time in prison for hacking up his 5 previous girlfriends with a meat cleaver and keeping the bits in the freezer, but I'm no angel myself and I always try to see the good in people - I just knew that, this time, things would be different, so I was willing to give him a chance."

torthecatlady · 01/07/2020 03:19

I remember there was one story a few years back about a woman going downstairs early in the morning to find her husband in the kitchen. He was ahem stuffing the Christmas Turkey HmmEnvy (not envy). There are no words.

peachypetite · 01/07/2020 03:34

Grin this thread is hilarious. Brings back memories of my nan’s take a break and chat magazines .

MissPiggee · 01/07/2020 03:41

A mixture of mostly truth with a bit of exaggeration but I do feel that the titles are deliberately made to sound more shocking than the stories really are. Yes, many fo them are very sad but nowhere near as extreme as the titles make out. These magazine stories are just the paper version of click bait.

I am a bit of a history buff and I like to read about the past. I remember reading about those novels ladies used to buy for apenny in Victorian/Edwardian times known as penny dreadfuls. Basically shock horror trash (kind of like the 19th/early 20th century equivalent of Virginia Andrews or those true crime paperbacks you get at the WH Smiths stand in railway stations or airports.

purplepeopleeaters · 01/07/2020 03:41

@Laaalaaaa

You only need to read some of the ridiculous posts on here. Then again the posts on here could easy be made up...
Or worse, they could be true.
torthecatlady · 01/07/2020 03:44

"Paper version of click bait"

Absolutely spot on!

MissPiggee · 01/07/2020 03:46

@Sittingontheveranda

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll The 'tips and hints' are the best :). I just searched for some and one came up 'If your hands are cold, hardboil some eggs and pop them in your pockets when you leave the house. Your hands will be lovely and toasty and you'll also have a ready made snack when you get hungry'. :).

Another one suggested if you are holding a dinner party and run out of mint sweets, squeeze some toothpaste onto a parchment sheet and freeze it. Your guests will never know the difference :).

I did the toothpaste thing as a child to make peppermint creams. I read about it in 1950s book of things to do for kids when they bored type of book. They weren't bad.

The tips and hints- I must admit some of them impress me a bit when they are really creative- like decoupaging an old chest of drawers with old copies of Take a Break magazine (nice bit of srse crawling there too!) or using old DVDs as bird scarers. I sometimes feel a bit "why am I not more imaginative like that?"

Then you get some that are really boring. "I use my old toast rack to keep letters in" kind of thing.

MissPiggee · 01/07/2020 03:48

@WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll

"I'd heard rumours about him doing time in prison for hacking up his 5 previous girlfriends with a meat cleaver and keeping the bits in the freezer, but I'm no angel myself and I always try to see the good in people - I just knew that, this time, things would be different, so I was willing to give him a chance."
This does my head in. Like those women who marry death row inmates: "He is such a misundersood sensitive soul at heart (he only raped 3 prostitutes and killed a child) but no one really cared for him and understood him." (and you think you can "fix" him?)
Quarantimespringclean · 01/07/2020 03:58

I used to think the same but if you google the names of the protagonists you often find the newspaper reports of court cases etc. I find them fascinating.

The thing that really gets me about them is the old fashioned ‘house style’ of the magazines. The most crass and appalling things are described in a gushing way reminiscent of a 1950s school girl comic. People never talk - they gurgle, trill, growl and chuckle. And the use of euphemisms - they don’t guess get passing out drunk, they ‘let their hair down’. Passion got the better of us = had sex in a public place and/or with someone else’s spouse who I had met earlier that night. He/she/I was no angel = lengthy criminal record. Tearaway son with a cheeky glint in his eye = vicious thug who terrorises the neighbours In fact anything offensive or anti social is referred to as cheeky.

FlyRobinFly · 01/07/2020 04:05

Can speak somewhat from experience on this one. In my late teens me and my friend sent one in while we were pissed for a laugh and a week later she got an email stating they wanted to use it. £250 cash as well. Never did buy the mag to check though

MissPiggee · 01/07/2020 04:27

@Quarantimespringclean

I used to think the same but if you google the names of the protagonists you often find the newspaper reports of court cases etc. I find them fascinating.

The thing that really gets me about them is the old fashioned ‘house style’ of the magazines. The most crass and appalling things are described in a gushing way reminiscent of a 1950s school girl comic. People never talk - they gurgle, trill, growl and chuckle. And the use of euphemisms - they don’t guess get passing out drunk, they ‘let their hair down’. Passion got the better of us = had sex in a public place and/or with someone else’s spouse who I had met earlier that night. He/she/I was no angel = lengthy criminal record. Tearaway son with a cheeky glint in his eye = vicious thug who terrorises the neighbours In fact anything offensive or anti social is referred to as cheeky.

Tearaway son with a cheeky glint in his eye=vicious thug who terrorises rhe neighbours

I often find myself amazed at the kind of behaviour parents put up with from their children in these stories. I find myself reading about teens who by 16 have had a criminal record for joyriding or arson and their mums haven't chucked them out the house and then they get a girl pregnant and there is no reading them the riot act....or maybe these stories edit this out?

longtimecomin · 01/07/2020 05:05

Yes a lot of them are real and some are fake. My friend was a journalist collecting and writing these stories. They don't pay much, just between a couple of hundred pound to £1k and their reputation is out there forever!

I remember one that started 'I knew he was the one for me when I saw him in the dole que' months later she caught him shagging a chicken she had left out to defrost. Ridiculous but probably true, there are people out there like that.

overnightangel · 01/07/2020 05:12

I remember one that started 'I knew he was the one for me when I saw him in the dole que' months later she caught him shagging a chicken she had left out to defrost.

No words 🤣

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