Been together almost 20 years - I was the one that chased DH. He was quite shy, introverted, but I fell for the shy smiles and private show of affection.
20 years on he rarely, if ever, flirts. He tells me I'm attractive, but I miss flirting and feeling desirable, even more so now I'm middle aged and not the young thing I once was.
Those in long relationships, does your other half still flirt with you? Do you still get the "frisson" of being flirted with, that twinkle in the eye?
Or is it just for those at the start of their relationships?