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AIBU?

to not want my arsey ex to move within 5 miles of us.

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 20:40

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kittywits · 25/09/2007 20:52

He is deliberately moving to be closer to you? e.g are there dc's involved?

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 21:02

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kittywits · 25/09/2007 21:08

Tricky when there are kids involved. Do they want to see him and can you set down ground rules so that you feel in control and he's not able to give you crap?

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 21:10

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 21:22

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xXxamyxXx · 25/09/2007 21:28

how horrid is he will your dcs not enjoy more of there dad maybe threaten to move again i dont know its a hard one

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 21:31

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xXxamyxXx · 25/09/2007 21:36

god didnt realise he was as bad as that would definatly move or pretend to know you shouldnt have too he sounds like a loon and controlling

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BandofMothers · 25/09/2007 21:39

Does he have visitation??

Can you get some sort of court order that means he can't come too close???

I would think there should be SOMETHING you could do as he tried to kill you.

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 21:42

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essbeehindyou · 25/09/2007 21:51

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xXxamyxXx · 25/09/2007 21:53

think it might give him the message i hope it does anyway best of luck

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serenity · 25/09/2007 21:56

Twat Him, not you obviously.

Is it actually happening, or could it be that he's just being mouthy, knowing that it will upset you? Is it worth finding out if you could lodge a complaint with the Police now, even if it's just so they have the details on record? I remember when all this happened originally, and it still makes me so angry. He's such a fucking arse (sorry, but I hate people like this )

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essbeehindyou · 26/09/2007 12:58

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lou33 · 26/09/2007 13:00

oh god essbee, he's a right arse isnt he?

btw exh is saying he is back in uk on 8th oct, so i know how you are feeling

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Fennel · 26/09/2007 13:02

Essbee! I knew this was you by the thread title.

Maybe it would be nice for the children. Would you be keener if it meant you got regular babysitting out of it?

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essbeehindyou · 26/09/2007 13:14

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Fennel · 26/09/2007 13:22

Well if he can't be bothered now to see the children on the one weekend a month they're due to visit him where he already lives, the chances of him bothering to move 200 miles to see them more are small, really, aren't they?

She says hopefully.

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essbeehindyou · 26/09/2007 13:36

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lou33 · 26/09/2007 17:11

yes love i am, but i wont let him play with my head this time

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LIZS · 26/09/2007 17:26

You have every reason to be suspicious. He probably is just out to wind you up though

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Bundle · 26/09/2007 17:26

hopefully he'll move in next door to someone who's got an asbo for being a noisy neighbour

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Yorkiegirl · 26/09/2007 23:23

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