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Lordfrontpaw
I think the OP was asked something similar and I understood Live Aid happened before she was born
The fact that I don't remember live aid because it was before I was born is a major part of my point.
Every one who keeps making this into about some attack on charitable giving has not understood the point I've been trying to make. I have nothing against charity, whether that charity is meant to benefit African countries or Grenfell.
I would also have nothing against the song if, as so many keep trying to claim, it was of its time and was no longer relevant.
The song is still actively being used, updated and played during appeals. I don't have a problem with the appeals. I have a problem with the fact that 40 or so years after this song came out, we still can't write something that is slightly more nuanced in its message.
As someone who wasn't born when live aid happened, the first time I learned that it had anything to do with the 1984 famine in Ethiopia was six years ago, because the recorded an updated version with equally problematic lyrics. Not even one single word in the original lyrics of this song tells you that it's about Ethiopia, or even about a specific disaster. If you make the argument that I would understand better if I had been there...well that's the point. I wasn't there, so all this song is telling me is that Africa is a very miserable place. Same with a lot of others who are 36 or younger. Unlike WW2 or the slave trade, there is not exactly lots of nuanced opinion or information lying around about 80s history in the African continent, except if you go look for it. The majority of people I live and work with are not the type of people who would do this, so their opinion of Africa (and sometimes by extension, black people) is entirely based on what they see on telly, or which songs they hear at Christmas.
The difference between this song and Pretty Woman, is that Pretty Woman is not trying to sell you an actual reality. Pretty Woman is a work of fiction, whilst the song is trying to influence your real perception of 'the world outside your window'.
All of this would absolutely not bother me at all if the song, as everyone says, has absolutely no influence on or relevance to how anybody in 2020 perceives Africa or Africa's black population, either when it comes to charitable giving or wider context. I'm saying that it does still influence the way people see Africa and Africa's black population, and that songs like these can lead to negative stereotypes if left unchecked. And by left unchecked I don't mean 'unbanned'. I mean that if the majority of material that the average person in the UK is exposed to in 2020 is still of the exact same tone and content of a 1984 song with questionable lyrics, then this is a problem that should be addressed.
Yes, I was angry when I first posted this, due to an experience that I'd had that day. And I was subsequently angry and upset that posters on here try to discredit that experience by
a) totally ignoring my point and making this into a debate on whether live aid was a good idea. And what I've done to save the planet.
b) telling me what I am and am not allowed to be upset about.
I was fully expecting pushback on the opinion regarding banning the song, and I wish my initial post had been less hostile, but I wasn't expecting such a major pushback on my feelings.
I'll ask again, because nobody actually answered my last question. If I'm upset about the song still being used (but for the sake of argument, let's assume I'm not alone in finding this song offensive), and you don't even like the song and couldn't care less about its existence, why does it matter so much if the song stops being played as often? It doesn't have to banned, but likewise, it also doesn't have to be the (in theory) 2020 Africa Covid-19 Christmas appeal song, and it doesn't have to appear on the radio every other second. What is so problematic about that, compared to let's say, taking Little Britain of the air?
Sometimes I wonder if it is because limiting 'Do they know it's Christmas' which a lot of people have donated money to, feels as though it would be some kind of admission of wrongdoing. Just to say, I don't think anybody did anything wrong by donating to live aid, and that's not what I am trying to say, but I don't often hear such a passionate defence of something which starts with the words 'I hate it and it's crap, and it served its purpose in 1984'.
To me it does feel a bit similar to the Golliwogs discussion. Some people were so against banning the sale of them, and I think that was in part because if they'd played with the dolls in the past and it was decided that they should be banned, it would make them seem as though they were or had been at some point in time, racists.
So let's say I propose banning it being played on the radio and appearing on TV ads if the lyrics stay the way they are, for the reasons I've mentioned above. You can still buy the song and play it at home. Would this bother you, and if so, why? I would genuinely like to know. How does this compare to little Britain?