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Hygiene issue with dog and baby

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fluffyslippersplease · 05/06/2020 20:48

I'm expecting a baby in October. Dh had the dog before we met 5 years ago. I really am not a dog person which Dh knew. The dog is quite old and seems to have chronic problems with skin, ears and particularly his eyes. We had his eyes operated on but the problems persist. It's constantly shedding skin and hair everywhere and its eyes are always filled with gunge. You clean them and apply drops and ten minutes later they're green again. Two vets have just said keep cleaning and use the drops. I'm very concerned about the hygiene aspects of having this dog around the baby, even around me. I've already had four miscarriages. I have suggested to dh that the dog should remain in the conservatory and the garden rather than coming into the main house. Dh is totally against this because he likes to spend time with the dogs and the conservatory, although it has tv, sofa etc, isn't as comfortable as the rest of the house. He acts like I'm Cruella Deville in this and just accuses me of not liking the dog. I don't dislike the dog. I feel sorry for it but I really don't like touching and stroking it because of its problems especially having a baby. We also have a youngish dc he had from a previous relationship that strokes the dog a lot and I worry about it touching the dog and then touching the baby.

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follygirl · 07/06/2020 10:09

I can't believe that you're worrying so much about the situation with this poor dog.
How do you think children in poorer countries cope? They have more serious things to worry about than an elderly dog.
We have 2 cats and a dog and have miraculously managed to raise 2 children who have survived living in what must be an unhygienic household.
You need to have a serious conversation with your dh about this issue.

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