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AIBU?

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That i'm probably not conceiving this month.

14 replies

FUTUREsoon · 05/06/2020 16:35

I felt so sad when I saw the tissue.
I had a period 2 weeks ago and me and dp haven't had sex the past 2 weeks because we've both been falling asleep early.

We dtd yesterday afternoon and i've just wiped and there's a slight pink colour to the discharge :( very very very faint like you have to squint to see it.

Feeling a bit down as i was hoping we would dtd quite a lot the next 2 weeks in hope of conceiving

OP posts:
myna · 05/06/2020 17:22

Don’t understand what your AIBU is? Your period was 2 weeks ago so presumably you still have time until the next one? Confused

Oysterbabe · 05/06/2020 17:23

I don't get what the issue is either.

zscaler · 05/06/2020 17:24

If your period was two weeks ago you should be in the window for conception now, surely?

YouBoggleMyMind · 05/06/2020 17:26

Sounds like your could be in your fertile window so keep dtd. Good luck 🤞🏻

GladAllOver · 05/06/2020 17:30

This is much too soon to get upset or ask for advice here. Just get on with the sex and see what happens.

GladAllOver · 05/06/2020 17:32

I did smile at the
me and dp haven't had sex the past 2 weeks because we've both been falling asleep early

FUTUREsoon · 05/06/2020 17:59

I think it's because i've seen blood when I thought I would be most fertile Blush

OP posts:
FUTUREsoon · 05/06/2020 17:59

@GladAllOver hahah we had planned to dtd lots but sleep took priority Grin

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redwinefine · 05/06/2020 18:00

Not to get your hopes up, but could it be implantation bleeding?

RyanBergarasTeeth · 05/06/2020 18:03

Could it be implantation or even just ovulation? Your not out yet! That said i understand. Im ttc but the last month dp has refused all sex so i am out this month and will have to strategically try again next month without him knowing im ovulating.

PennyArrowBar · 05/06/2020 18:04

You want the conception board rather than aibu.

Conception

You may be spotting because you're ovulating. It's not uncommon. I would recommend using OPKs or temping if you want to pin down ovulation. Good luck 👍

SunbathingDragon · 05/06/2020 18:04

Feeling a bit down as i was hoping we would dtd quite a lot the next 2 weeks in hope of conceiving

If your period was a fortnight ago then the next two weeks is when you are the least likely to conceive.

Maybe the blood is due to ovulation so have sex now.

raspberryk · 05/06/2020 18:24

Stop knicker watching and get on your dh.
Or like pp said get ovulation tests to pinpoint it as it doesn't sound like you understand your cycle.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 05/06/2020 18:27

OP, you’d have got different responses if you’d posted in Conception.

I agree the pink tinge doesn’t mean anything and you should definitely get to DTD! Do you use OPKs?

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