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Now illegal to have sex with partner you don't live with?

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Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 11:46

Lots of newspapers/online articles announcing this today.
Being in a private place with partner and having sex can lead to a £100 fine if i've read correctly.

The world is going cuckoo.
But who cares about seeing my boyfriend, at least I can go shopping in Primark and go sit on a packed train (sarcasm)

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Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 16:55

@PatricksRum more so the rules should be to allow loved ones to see each other.
You're using women being stuck with their abusers as an example for someone being selfish seeing their dp? Bit extreme.
Also, i think women (or men) being stuck with abusers, and people being forced away from loved ones who have died is more evidence for restrictions needing to be eased on human interaction!!

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PatricksRum · 01/06/2020 16:55

Ignoring rules for your own selfish desire and helping to spread a disease is shitty too. Hth

MrMeeseekscando · 01/06/2020 16:55

That has no bearing. Sex is not a need but a want.

Yes then. Grin

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 16:56

@PatricksRum it does have bearing because if you are currently living with and having sex with your partner,
Then you have no idea what it's like for those partners who are forced not to

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MrMeeseekscando · 01/06/2020 16:58

@PatricksRum also, it's not about sex.
That's been addressed.

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 16:58

And i dont get how people are comparing not seeing partners with not seeing family?
I don't have romantic cuddles and sex with my mum Hmm
Physical contact is needed in relationships and the argument that ldr relationships do it is irrelavant because most have an end date

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Wewearpinkonwednesdays · 01/06/2020 16:58

Well you need to come within 2 meters of someone to have sex so I'm not sure what you are finding so surprising this far down the line?

PatricksRum · 01/06/2020 16:58

more so the rules should be to allow loved ones to see each other.

You can see each other... Outside.

https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/lockdown-trapped-women-with-their-abusers-lifting-it-could-kill-themukk_5ed0e009c5b611c4a8df7c4d

Interesting article regarding da

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 01/06/2020 16:59

Patrick does have a point.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 01/06/2020 16:59

There's no circumstances to understand

Really? None? No circumstances whatsoever for anyone breaking the lock down rules?

I lost my mum 2 months ago and I have been visiting my dad everyday in his house and will continue to do so...I've even hugged him as he wept for the loss of the woman he was married to for 57 years.

No say there are "no circumstances to understand".

borntohula · 01/06/2020 17:00

PatricksRum sex is great therapy if you're feeling a bit tense about stuff hth

MadameMarie · 01/06/2020 17:00

We can't all just ignore social distancing to pack out the park and the beach, protest or shag. If we're all just going to do whatever now and sod the consequences then let's get back to normal to at least try and salvage the economy.

Otherwise, rules are there for a reason.

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 17:00

@PatricksRum oh yes i'm sure someone who's family member has just died gets great pleasure out of only getting comfort 2m apart in a garden or park Hmm

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trappedsincesundaymorn · 01/06/2020 17:00

No= now

PatricksRum · 01/06/2020 17:00

@PatricksRum it does have bearing because if you are currently living with and having sex with your partner,
Then you have no idea what it's like for those partners who are forced not to

I have no idea what these poor people feel like not having sex? Really? That's what you're taking out of this situation?

If you're really interested in my sex life then no I haven't seen nor had sex with a partner.

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 17:01

@Awwlookatmybabyspider and what point does patrick have?

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PatricksRum · 01/06/2020 17:02

I lost my mum 2 months ago and I have been visiting my dad everyday in his house and will continue to do so...I've even hugged him as he wept for the loss of the woman he was married to for 57 years. *

That's horrible but this is shout sex. My response was in regards to sex.

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 17:02

@PatricksRum i have no interest in your sex life but if youre interested in stopping other people have sex then surely yours is relevant too.

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PatricksRum · 01/06/2020 17:03

i have no interest in your sex life but if youre interested in stopping other people have sex then surely yours is relevant too.

I'm not doing that...
That has been the rule for 11 weeks now, is it?

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 17:03

@PatricksRum it wasnt about sex because I said "people being abused and people who family members have died are more so the reasons restrictions should be eased"
And you responded saying
"People can see each other outside'

Have some empathy!

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PatricksRum · 01/06/2020 17:03

I also didn't make the rules. I'm not bojo. Apologies for confusion.

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 17:04

@PatricksRum yes but when KFC, clothes shops, schools, trains, unessential shops are all opening then yes, people should now be able to see their close loved ones.

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MarieQueenofScots · 01/06/2020 17:04

I haven't broke lockdown rules. I haven't left my home in 3 months

And do you understand how that is easier for some people than others? Or are you totally unable to understand nuance?

MarieQueenofScots · 01/06/2020 17:05

PatricksRum

Do you live with your partner?

Sueannnnna · 01/06/2020 17:06

@PatricksRum never said you were Boris.
I'm saying you seem to be part of this lockdown police brigade that take the high almighty of 'i'm excellent at following lockdown rules'. Well good for you but I can make my own judgement about whether seeing my boyfriend is safe or not. We are probably more so safe than some cohabitating couples as we don't really go out apart from seeing each other.

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