We live in a communal tenement with a shared garden. Our neighbours are lovely....but they’ve been making permanent changes to the garden without running it past several of us. It’s like mini land grabs. A raised vegetable plot, a brick BBQ, a massive trampoline, and we have overheard them talking about their next project....an outdoor room for the kids.
Am I being unreasonable to think this is a bit inconsiderate? I would never go ahead with something without asking everyone who has shared ownership.
How would you approach it without getting their backs up?