13 year old DS with complex needs including coordination issues, reflex retentions, ADHD and asthma (not severe - just preventer twice daily and occasional ventolin) has an EHCP (level 4) and is at a small school - when full around 100 pupils. I also have asthma (again preventer and occasional ventolin) but also 7 years ago had organ distress and failure including liver, kidneys, internal bleeding, nervous system shutdown and two cardiac arrests. Much healthier and fitter now (it was caused by a rare infectious disease) but do get asthma attacks from time to time and have Internal scarring. Didn’t get a letter - although original gp when all that was going on has left and don’t think the new one knows me at all. My sons school has offered him to go back 2 or 3 days a week - will be small groups but they are always quite touchy feely in his usual group and am concerned that it increases our risk. I also work mainly from home and am very full time and then some as a key worker (I run a charity providing mental health and education for vulnerable adults - currently all online and phone) and don’t have time to spend masses with my son for his education as well as look after all the work priorities and feel really torn and feel like I am failing him as I should be prioritising him but also have safeguarding responsibility for 300 vulnerable adults - 80 of which are really struggling with anxiety etc with the current situation. 9 tried to commit suicide in the last year. WWYD? Would you take up the offer or keep him shielded? Really torn...