Is it i just me, or would you be annoyed.

[Radley]

DH went out at 4pm saying that he was going to do a bit of shopping.

I have just phoned him as the kids were wanting him, they've hardly seen him this week due to him working.

He has done NO shopping yet and got the taxi straight to the pub. IMO he had no intention going shopping.

AIBU to be royally pissed off, when I can't leave the kids for 10 mins without getting a text asking me how long i'll be etc.

very cleverly answered! i'd run out of fingers anyway!!

Anymore news radley??
How are things??

He's still being a lazy pain in the arse, i've been pottering about upstairs and he's been watching fuffin cricket.

At present I'm struggling to look at him never mind talk to him. He's going on his normal pool night tomorrow, see how he behaves then (it's like talking about a bloody child)

That's cos they are children!! Most of them anyway!

Like Lorayn I just dropped by to see how things weregoing.

When me and exDH split up it had got to the stage where I told him to stay out of my way cos I wanted to smash his face in!!!!

Hope it sorts itself out one way or another, will keep watching for further updates!

Thanks for checking on me, rl friends don't tend to say much.

Last night he showed how inconsiderate he is AGAIN. He went in my bedside drawer took the last of the rennies without telling me, left the empty wrapper the windowsill etc. So I had to get up at 1am to come downstairs to get some andrews, after which I couldn't sleep right and I'm knackered today.

maybe you should try and get something down on paper, reasons as to why you would stay and why you wouldnt.
I even wrote a letter to exdp a few times explaining why I was ending it and what I felt.
Threw it away and got on with trying to make things work, you need to work out if you're happy to keep going with this, hope tonight doesnt go too badly x

id be really pissed off!but if my dh asked if it was alrite to have a night out no probs {and that works both ways}but if he said he was shopping and disapered to the pub instead id kill him u being sick only adds insult to injury in fairness dont imagine dh would even attempt such a thing nor would i!!!

YANBU, I would be livid.

How did it go last night radley??

If women left men for going to the pub for a cheeky pint there'd be a lot of lonely women out there and the pubs would be even fuller! Why don't you just say lying sucks and ask him to be honest, it's ok for him to slip off and have a pint as long as you can have a couple of hours to yourself too.

I AM NOT ALONE!!!!! My DH used to do this ALL the time the first year that DS was here. I used to be embarrassed telling anyone because I felt like something out of the 1920's. Stuck at home with baby while old man in the pub. Worse feeling in the world to be left like that especially when they have out and out lied to you and you trusted them and believed that they were coming home. I used to be in floods especially because we had not been married that long. Had severe PND too, which I believe was brought on by total lack of support and his behaviour.

In the end I left him and went to my parents making plans to move back permanently, name down for housing etc. Heard nothing for three days, which was pretty bad but then he rang begging me to come home and promising to change his ways etc. The man who met me off the train was not the man I left. Doesn't do it anymore but I also have relaxed my expectations too so we don t tend to get to the point where he feels he has to lie about going out also he nows knows that having left once I could and would do it again.