It actually made me feel better about what he did.
I understand what he did
I'm not an idiot or a tool thanks.
It's all very well saying what we have done or would do, but none of us are in his position of being the PM's Chief Aide - a PM who was in bed, very ill himself.
His wife was ill (but as has been mentioned, not wit the CV symptoms we were being told about at the time), they were getting threats at the house And because he was working with many with CV they didn't feel they had anyone local they could ask to take the risk of looking after their son.
A couple of hours away is an empty house, with people that could help if necessary. Healthy young, least at risk people, who had offered.
As for the drive the day before. Yes. I can totally see a wife saying to her husband 'you haven't been well, are you sure you're up to driving? I think we should go for a drive and see how you feel today and if you're ok, go home tomorrow' and doing just that. They didn't go to a castle, they didn't go into the town, they stopped at the side of the road when the 4 year old needed a wee, they then took the opportunity for a bit of a leg stretch and for 4 yo to run around a bit.
They then came back to London the next day.
Other people made different decisions, other people didn't have his set of circumstances, most notably being the Aide to a very ill PM
I'm not saying his 'Elite position' grants him leeway, I'm saying he had a shit load of responsibility for the country and took what I consider appropriate action to ensure his family were safe so he was in a position to do that.