Not sure if I'm just being super sensitive or if I have a genuine reason to be upset, so any advice would be greatly appreciated...
My husband has a ten year old child from a previous relationship. He shares custody with his ex and picks her up several times a week. When hubby's ex found out that he was dating me five years ago, she became very jealous and stopped him from seeing the child. Anyway, after fighting it out in court, this issue was resolved. However, I get the feeling that the ex is still very jealous of his relationship and is always trying to cause trouble between us. For example, she will chat for ages with him when he collects the child (only if she knows that I am in the car) and laughs flirtatiously with him. One time she kept him chatting for almost two hours whilst I was waiting in the car. She always texts and phones him almost every day. I understand that there needs to be communication between both parties, but I really do feel that the ex does not respect boundaries. I have spoken to hubby and he does not know what to do, he worries about being rude, which I do understand, and of course he has to communicate with her if it is about the child. I really think she is determined to impose herself and I don't know what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.