Bullshit I got much more abuse for my weight at a size 28 than at a size 12. I didnt get any abuse for my weight at a size 12
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It is unfair. I had friend size 8 (more 6 tbh) and she kept getting the "take an extra piece, it will be good for you" and "Is it medical?" And similar. I never got this questions as a size 12 at the time. And no one dared, except my family, when I became size 20-22...
There can be something of a difference between size 8 and size 12 depending on your height.
I've always been particularly petite in both. Size 6 - 8 but I'm only 5ft 1. My recommended calorie intake for my size and weight is about 1400 rather than the recommended 2000 for an adult female.
Over the years, I have got sick of others thinking it's OK to pass comment on why I don't have a biscuit or a cake in the office "ohh look at you, you are so good" or remarking on how I haven't eaten everything when we eat out. Or remarking on the size of my portions.
We all know its rude to comment on it for someone who is bigger. People do it knowingly though. But there is a social acceptability that it's OK to do the same with people who are thinner, in a somewhat disparaging way. And no this isn't OK.
It may not be as nasty as the abuse that overweight people get but it's certainly not polite either. It displays a real level of ignorance and rudeness.
Logically I shouldn't be eating the same size portions as someone who is taller and has a bigger skeletal frame to me. I shouldn't be going into a restaurant and eating meals designed to fill an average man (2500 calories daily) because I'd be eating double what I should.
It doesn't seem to be something that people can compute though.