Am furious. And need some perspective and advice. I co-parent with my ex who asked me a week ago if he could take a break from childcare duties for a long weekend. I found out today he was planning to fly to France to stay in his brothers fancy pants holiday villa for a short holiday break. It turns out his brother has been inviting friends and family and writing fake letters to say his guests were travelling for essential business. And offered to do the same for my ex. I have obviously told my ex to fuck off (in slightly diff terms). The brother has also been travelling back and forth to UK. No idea how he has persuaded authorities he does essential business given his company specialises in tax avoidance schemes. Just needed to vent. And comments to help me calm down.