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Rocketprincess12 · 08/05/2020 11:57

Ex husband and I have sold our home agreeing on the division. My share has bought a home for my son and I. My ex is moving in with a mate currently so will have his sale proceeds as cash. My ex never has our son, sees him about 30 mins a month. He is currently not working. Is it reasonable to ask for child maintenance for our son at this time

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TeddyIsaHe · 08/05/2020 11:59

Of course it is. Go through CMS though so you don’t give your ex any control of how much or when he pays.

surlycurly · 08/05/2020 12:00

You can ask but you're not entitled to anything because he's not working.

Anotherchangeanothername · 08/05/2020 12:02

Yes it’s totally acceptable to expect the other parents to contribute financially.
The sale of the house is irrelevant as it’s worked out on income though

Rocketprincess12 · 08/05/2020 12:48

Thank you for your replies. I was wondering because he is not working whether it was reasonable to even ask? I have all the care of our son. I wondered if it was a bit of a grey area as he has a large cash sum now and if that made any difference ?

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Maybelatte · 08/05/2020 13:19

You won’t get much if he’s on benefits but he does still have to pay something, I think it’s £5 a week or something.

Anotherchangeanothername · 08/05/2020 14:08

Yeah I don't believe cash in the bank will change the amount if you go through the CMS. If you do a private arrangement he might take it into account but no guarantees

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