So it was my Birthday yesterday. I knew it was going to be a low key affair due to Lockdown.
However I can’t help feeling that dh made zero effort. He is very big on having a present list for his birthday.
So there was one thing that I wanted. Yes it was pricey but definitely within budget.
I overheard him telling his brother that he wasn’t going to get it for me because he felt that it wasn’t worth it for various reasons.
He also made a big deal of taking afternoon off to help me but actually by the time he finished work most of the home schooling etc etc had been done. He did suggest a takeaway which I ordered and It was still me that laid the table whilst he sat on his arse.
I cleared table and left washing up expecting my teen or dh to do it but it is still there now.
So yesterday I told him that I was positive that this was the gift I wanted and his response was you will have to sort it out as I can’t shop right now. He is shielding but really.
Tbh I am also cross with my teen as I went to a lot of trouble to make her birthday special but all she did was make her own lunch but leave washing up of course.
AIBU