When my DD goes to visit my ex she is on her phone too much?

[Secret187247]

Hi,

When my DD goes to stay with my ex she comes back shattered and her phone usage is more than a third of the total time she spends there. As a guide in the last 4 days she has spent just shy of 40 hours on her phone.

My ex and I don't get on but I want to say something but it will cause an argument and I'm not sure it's worth the grief. I have already restricted usage on her phone to just daytime as previously she had been on it all night. Should I reduce it further??

What are your thoughts / idea on how I should handle this?

How old is she?

Ten

Ouch - ten hours a day a lot - and presumably you have to pay the bill for this?

She has a contract so it's all included and she uses WiFi got the majority of it

Maybe just have a quiet word with her first and try and hammer home how important sleep is to her health, and find out if she’s nervous about sleeping there.

No need for a ten year old to have a phone in the first place. I’d send her without it. That’s a ridiculous amount of time for anyone to spend on their phone, let alone a small child