DP needs to be quiet?

[workofheart]

I've been up since 4.30am as the dog was being sick, then worked from 6am to 5pm on my day job, all evening on my new sideline and DP who is furloughed at the moment has been on a video call to two mates for the last FOUR HOURS talking at the top of his voice. I let him know I was going to bed and he made a point of saying to the guys "gotta keep the noise down, she's going to bed". He is still very loud talking/shouting and it's giving me the rage. Just need to sleep. It's been a very long, hard week for me as work is very stressful. AIBI to go down and ask him to be quieter or is it not really that late?!

I don’t think you’re being unreasonable although if he has headphones on he probably doesn’t realise he’s talking so loud. My ds is like this on the PlayStation at night and it can be really annoying but I always wear earplugs anyway so it’s blocked a bit.

You're right, that's probably it. He never realises how loud he's being.

Asked him to be quiet but it's made no difference I'm pretty peed off as he knows what a hard week I've had (at my desk by 6am every day) while he's been watching films and pottering about but at the same time I feel like a right party pooper!

It's nearly 11.30!

If you've been working full time and he's been 'pottering' does that mean he's been doing the cooking and cleaning etc?

Whatever, it's time he was much, much quieter.

Doesn't help our house doesn't have many (any) doors at the moment

He did cook but I was waiting bloody ages for him to get around to serving it out (cold spaghetti anyone?!) as he was on the same call he's on now. Nearly five hours now...

I've not seen any cleaning happen this week but he's done bits like shopping and empty the dishwasher so I'm not complaining too much.

Please tell me you’ve been back in and told him to stfu! That would grind my gears (especially after serving you Cold food because he was still on the same call!!)

Phew, he's finished the call!

Next time just switch off the wifi and tell him the internet is down 😂

I've not seen any cleaning happen this week but he's done bits like shopping and empty the dishwasher so I'm not complaining too much.

WTF is wrong with you woman? You've been working all kinds of hours and he does next to fuck all? Your bar is set pretty low if you feel that's acceptable. Seriously.

If you're working full time and starting a business (?) your 'sideline' in the evening he basically needs to be doing ALL the domestic chores.

You need to work out how to remotely reset your router password for when you go to bed and then set it back to normal password when you get up!

I am quite smug today that he is hungover from all the wine and beers he drank while talking to his mates last night

But he's already getting on my nerves again by coming upstairs today where I was pottering about on my well deserved day off and having a huff at me, saying "I'm getting a bit bored of doing everything on my own all the time". I'm not sure what "everything" is or when "all the time" is, seeing as I've been working all week and haven't had any time, plus it's not like we can go anywhere! I should add we've eaten dinner together, watched some tv l and walked the dogs together every night, so it's not like we don't do anything together FFS.

Twat