Knowing Mumsnet as I do, I am sure my question would get a ton of YABU answers, quickly escalating to YABVVVU! and then I'll doubtless be told to get a grip/get things in perspective, asked if am the thread police/gestapo/stasi, told to scroll past, leave Mumsnet if I don't like it, and very likely given the biscuit a few times.
And yet I still want to ask the question! 😆 Am I a masochist maybe?