Just took my ds and dd out for a bike ride. We were gone 3 hours (not in the uk) and told H where we were going, 3 hours is about what you would expect it to take. He is working and says often that I need to keep the kids away from him. I also work and homeschool the kids (now not normally) and cook, do laundry etc. I have come home and he is not here. No note. No text. Called and no reply.
I am being punished for being unavailable. This happens. But he can go off for a hike and be hours longer than anticipated and it’s fine. I’m not wrong that he is an arse. Am I?