It is simply not possible to eliminate all risk from life.
No its not, but people do make informed decisions on how they might go about minimising some of these risks. They make lifestyle choices to improve their health.
One of the things about covid-19 is its very difficult to make such adjustments because we don't know what the risks are.
Risks are not equal. Some people are more at risk than others. We don't really know who is at risk and who isn't.
Someone who is healthy and has not known health problems and in their 60s is not necessarily the same as someone who is healthy and in their 20s. Why?
Is there a genetic risk? There are suggestions that it could be. That means some families may carry a very high risk whilst others have none at all. This might be along BAME lines or might be along other lines such as a known family history of hypertension.
This is where its worth pointing out, the correct terminology is not 'no underlying conditions' but 'no known underlying conditions'. This might well give health people in certain situations more wary than others. Just because we don't know something does not mean someone isn't at more risk.
Then there is the aspect of social connections. Healthy people can pass on the disease to others - and R value of the disease means one person catching it can spread it to thousands unwittingly. Or to someone close to them.
We have one friend who is living alone and he works from home. He's in his late twenties. His father has an autoimmune condition. He is very close to his father and is missing him dreadfully. His brother and SIL isolated and then went to visit his Dad and he is being encouraged to do this for a couple of weeks so he too can see his Dad. He doesn't want to do this, because he fears he could not cope with things if he had been to visit his Dad and his Dad then caught it even if he wasn't the source of infection purely because he wouldn't know that he wasn't the source. Psychologically he would never be able to forgive himself and couldn't live with that thought.
So this isn't directly about dying of Covid-19 himself.
Then there is the issue of the NHS being overwhelmed so anyone who has any health condition or an unforeseen accident could end up in a situation where there is no health care if health people don't also abide by the rules. Any healthy person can be involved in a car accident. Yes. We understand the risks of car accidents. But we also have the safety net that if we have an accident there is health care which might just save our life. With a massive covid-19 wave, there is no guarentee of that.
So there is the risk of indirect death to healthy people to consider.
Prior to this pandemic most people didn't not live life worrying about the risks of day to day life and the possibility of dying - this illness is just one of many many things that could kill you. The fear is totally irrational.
This boils my piss. It is not irrational. We KNOW that covid-19 is killing people. People want to avoid death generally speaking. The disease is doing so in a way which is extremely fast and we don't who is at risk and how the spread of the disease will progress. Or if it will mutate.
This unknown factor is something that is rational to be concerned about. It is rational to not want to catch a disease we do not understand the long term effects of (some evidence that covid-19 can affect the testes so may have impact on fertility for example) or have no effective treatment for (possibility of damaged long term health from treatment which is untested).
The fear comes from the unknown quantities and lack of knowledge that prevents us from making informed decisions about because we do not have that data. This removes control from people. People are designed to be afraid of things we don't understand - anxiety and fear are a natural response to protect us from danger. This is not irrational. Irrational is when fear exceeds the risk posed. But since we do not fully understand the risk (in this case its multiple risks not just directly from dying of covid, but also indirect affects and indirect long term consequences) how can this be 'irrational'?
Are we going to say its irrational for healthy young nurses on an ITU ward to be afraid of dying of covid-19? I mean if they have no chance of dying why are we wasting PPE on them?
I'm sorry but there is so much nonsense and telling people to 'get a grip' is deeply unhelpful.
We need to have time to be able to find out the nature of the disease and how we can mitigate its affect before anyone can relax. We need to get to a point where people ARE able to make informed decisions. We also need to be at a point where people are able to be reassured that they are safe and that they don't pose a risk to others. Thats not going to happen quickly.
Risk management and risk assessment are deeply connected and intertwined with fear and anxiety. Without the missing component of knowledge we can not dismiss anyone as being 'hysterical', 'irrational', 'in need of a grip' or any other bullshit emotive language because we just don't KNOW.