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Not sure what to think: MIL neighbours

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latestnamechange · 25/04/2020 18:39

Just had a call from my 85 year old MIL's neighbours. I don't really see or speak to them very often, so when I saw it was them calling, I was really worried as she's older, vulnerable and in quite poor health.
The man told me not to worry, but he needed to call as the grass in MIL's front garden has got long and it looks awful. He said that the neighbours have all spoken to each other and agreed that they should not do it, but it should be done and that maybe I should do it, or maybe a gardener could do it, but he didn't want to recommend a gardener.
We do pop round with food or pharmacy deliveries from time to time, but don't go in and I've also been trying to isolate due to asthma. He knows this.
Initially, I felt really guilty, because I'm a bit of a people pleaser, but I think it's a bit of a cheek really, especially given the current situation. She has a mower, but it's extremely unlikely to have the right blades and I really don't want to go to B&Q or anywhere to get gardening accessories, in fact, I don't think I should even be considering it.

What do you think?

OP posts:
Bella2020 · 28/04/2020 19:24

I wonder how long they spent arguing over who got the job of calling you. Bloody cheek of them! I'd love to tell them where to go, but a polite 'feel free to do it yourselves' as we're unable at present will do.

Enough4me · 30/04/2020 16:50

OP, sounds like Victor Meldrew is her neighbour one side and a regular person the other. I would ignore Victor and let the other one carry on if he is happy to, otherwise get a gardener in when it is needed.

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