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To think people shouldn't walk to my village?

390 replies

Bohwens · 21/04/2020 13:57

Hello,

With the knowledge that this will make me sound quite snooty, I firstly apologise and explain it is because I worry for my own and family's safety as we are all asthmatic and at heightened risk from COVID-19.

We live in a very pretty little village, in a small conservation area in a semi rural location. We are about 2 miles from the nearest modern housing estate. Usually, the lane through the village has a couple of regular dog walkers.

Now that we are lockdown and people are getting out to exercise in the sun (great), the lane is like a motorway. There is a constant stream of people from the housing estate coming for their walk to the village. I understand it must be dull to walk around a modern housing estate. Over 500m there were 30 people. Usually you might see 1. We can't even go for a short walk without risk of coming into contact with people.

Entire large families are coming with 5-6 children out of control on bikes etc, treating the lane past our houses like a park. I've spotted people touching our walls, gates etc, even caught one nosing in the garden!

Many of these people are not staying into the side to observe social distancing, and have dogs off the lead that need to be fetched away.

AIBU to think people should stick to their own areas for their exercise? In a way, I something feel that if they wanted beautiful walks outside their front-door they should have coughed up the extra £100k to live here...

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Kinneddar · 21/04/2020 18:51

I live rurally and rarely see people about but in the past month its increased. Why now? Where the hell are they the rest of the year

Words actually fail me.

In the past month its increased you say 🤔 Hmmm strange that.

GinnyStrupac · 21/04/2020 18:52

Having read the title, I was coming on to agree with the OP, but having read the full OP, especially the last bit, crikey, I have to say YABU.

Ineedcoffee2345 · 21/04/2020 18:53

Do you own the whole village? Catch a grip

MuddyPuddlesAndPrettyBubbles · 21/04/2020 18:56

I live on an estate and the houses on either side of mine are both worth £100k+ more than mine. If I can't walk past more expensive houses, how can I get out? 😂

devildeepbluesea · 21/04/2020 18:58

Excellent trolling OP, no one is this disgusting!

Unless....that you Sarah? The mention of Swansea suddenly made me think...

Topseyt · 21/04/2020 18:59

Dig a large moat around YOUR village. It needs to be very deep. Populate it with piranhas and sharks. Have a drawbridge so that you choose who to let in or out.

Definitely don't let the riff raff from the local estate in. Bleurgh!

sunshinesupermum · 21/04/2020 18:59

Unbelievable. Yes YABVVVU. Stuck up cow.

YeahWhatevver · 21/04/2020 19:03

Hyacinth is that you?

To think people shouldn't walk to my village?
Poetryinaction · 21/04/2020 19:04

Did someome actually look at your garden OP? How will you get over that? Are you worried about looking disease? The first symptom is being an idiot.

Bargainhuntbore · 21/04/2020 19:12

*Words actually fail me.

In the past month its increased you say 🤔 Hmmm strange that.*

Because i live within the NP and the mountains are closed. I live 900ft above sea level and on a mountain-a closed one hence people should not be here

hesgotit · 21/04/2020 19:13

Has anyone ever seen Xenia and the OP in the same room?

Thought not!

Kindlethefourth · 21/04/2020 19:20

For those asking is this a wind up we had exactly the same on our local Facebook page. A message on behalf of a house owner in a local rural cluster of houses asking for the commoners from the housing estate to stay away.

DiseasesOfTheSheep · 21/04/2020 19:23

I sort of sympathise with the OP - I have no issue with people using the footpaths, bridleways and roads, but I wish they would stick off private property and stop interfering with livestock. My horses aren't there to entertain their kids and my sheep are at risk from their straying dogs. These aren't locals (I know all the locals and their mutts) but, to be fair, I've no idea if they come from a new build estate though so can't judge on that!

MaidenMotherCrone · 21/04/2020 19:23

Next months Parish Council Newsletter headline

Village owning lady shows lady garden to passing Covid9 carriers. They touched her wall!

Frangipanini · 21/04/2020 19:24

I live in a village. They are tiny minded, which is why I have my house in the market and I'm moving back to the 21st Century.

SirDucky · 21/04/2020 19:26

316 posts in reply to your shite. Are you dancing with glee?

BreconBeBuggered · 21/04/2020 19:27

Whether this OP is real or doing a spot of pisstaking, this is inspired goady fuckery. If it's real, perhaps she's been eaten by ravening hordes from the new estate.

Jezebel101 · 21/04/2020 19:34

I suspect the OP owns a hat she wears just for gardening her heritage roses in. And a little wooden sign that says 'My Little Piece Of Heaven' attached to her side gate where the garden gnomes keep a watchful eye on the gladioli.

If only the riff raff knew their place.

iklboo · 21/04/2020 19:39

316 posts in reply to your shite. Are you dancing with glee?

To be fair, most of them are taking the piss.

Mysterian · 21/04/2020 19:44

From a "housing estate"?!!!!

Evadne! Agatha! Fetch the blunderbuss! The lower classes are coming! With their shelled suits, wireless telephones and terribly punctuated tattoos! They'll probably burn a car out on the cricket square and have a knees up in the allotments! Send the scullery maid off on her bicycle to fetch the constabulary before they all start spit roasting each other in the mixed border!

caffeinefix · 21/04/2020 20:08
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1Morewineplease · 21/04/2020 20:12

The countryside is there to be enjoyed by everyone. If you live in the countryside then you are very lucky.
It is natural, particularly more so, at the moment, to get in touch with the countryside.
I’m sorry that country folk feel that they’ve been descended on by housing estate plebs, but just because you live rurally, doesn’t mean that you own it.
Maybe, OP, just think about what you’ve said, the next time you and your family decide to traipse to The Cotswolds for the day/weekend, or any number of pretty places that plebs visit , in order to just have a few minutes away from utter drabness.
None of us wants to be kept at home in our housing estate boxes, council flats, urban maisonettes or mobile homes.
You should feel flattered that people are flocking to your beautiful neck of the woods.
It won’t be for too long, hopefully, and then you can get your rural idyll back, where you can continue to live in your ‘Miss Read’ dystopian universe.
All I will groan about is hearing of farmers, smallholders and other landowners who have been really bothered during lambing and sowing etc.. by idiots who think that they can wander about willy nilly.
OP... you’ve really shot yourself in the foot here.

itsgettingweird · 21/04/2020 20:18

My local village has no shop.

There is a walk through woods from my twin that ends at 2 villages (depending which way you go at the end.)

Every day I take the wooded walk (700m from my road) and come out through a village and home along the roads I meet village people .

Luckily they aren't snobby arses and realise we are passing them because they are walking to out shopping parade for top up groceries.

dexterslockedintheshedagain · 21/04/2020 20:23

@iwalkinmyclothing
Thanks! I really should've know that!
Yes Swansea will always have my heart ❤️

AdoptedBumpkin · 21/04/2020 20:23

If they are on foot, they are within the guidelines. Be glad that you live in a nice village.