Inconsequential in the scheme of things, but really starting to get on my nerves.
I have a friend who is shielding due to having asthma. Despite having had a recent disagreement (he wanted to take a picture of me naked to do a painting of; I objected) I called a truce and have been keeping an eye on him and sending regular messages to check he's ok. I have also offered to take shopping round if he doesn't want to go outside and can't get a delivery slot.
He keeps deciding he wants to "meet" (via Skype) to have lunch at a particular time. The first couple of weeks I went with it, despite him only suggesting it an hour in advance and him commenting that I hadn't actually prepared any lunch (I'd had a late breakfast). The third time (half an hour's notice) I said I was busy. Today, literally no notice and I didn't see the message until later. When I did read it I suggested we could Skype later but he replied he was busy painting.
I then said it would be nice to have more than zero minutes' notice and that I could be in the middle of something as well - and he's got the hump.
AIBU to think that, even though we're in lockdown, it's a bit presumptuous of him to act as if I should be at his beck and call, and there's no reason he couldn't have proposed today's Skype lunch yesterday or earlier this morning? And AIBU to be a bit pissed off that he's now acting as if I'm being awkward?
It makes me feel like an afterthought - he makes sure he's all ready, lunch on the plate and in the mood for a chat, and expects to click his fingers and I'll drop whatever I'm doing.