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To assume nice, normal reasonable people look at the box when doing a jigsaw puzzle?

198 replies

SkippyDies · 17/04/2020 13:03

Following a post on FB yesterday when I revealed my new and most excellent jigsaw puzzle assembly command station, a friend, possibly an ex-friend now commented with surprise and alarm about the presence of the jigsaw puzzle box in my photos.

To my own surprise and alarm apparently looking at the box is cheating.

She and her family look at the box briefly before starting and then put it away. They jigsaw blind.

I’m very surprised that this is considered to be normal behaviour.

She did a poll on FB but it’s not really valid is it, what with her friends list containing a cohort of weird non-boxers. It’s a family thing apparently.

Maybe mn can help clarify that she is a giant freak.

YANBU = I look at the box
YABU = I do my jigsaws blind

OP posts:
CheshireDing · 17/04/2020 13:05

YANBU

I definitely look at the box, I would be there for months otherwise (and have lost interest by then)!

Friend is bonkers

AlphaIndigo · 17/04/2020 13:06

This has made me laugh! Your friend is a nutter. Who sets up a Facebook poll to prove a point?

WoeIsMee · 17/04/2020 13:08

I have a friend like this. She’s militant about it. Looking at the box is cheating and if you’re going to look at the box what’s the point in doing it!?

I look at the box!

Ilovefriday · 17/04/2020 13:12

I look at the box, how would you do it otherwise? They must have amazing photographic memories!

scaryreading · 17/04/2020 13:13

How could you do it without the box?

TheLastSaola · 17/04/2020 13:14

Looking at the box is cheating - that is and always has been true

DonPablo · 17/04/2020 13:14

Ah. She's into extreme sports.

JasonPollack · 17/04/2020 13:15

I like to jigsaw on hard mode Grin

Mia1415 · 17/04/2020 13:15

I look at the box!

notapizzaeater · 17/04/2020 13:16

I'd never do it if I didn't look at the box - I once did a WASGI one where the picture on the box isn't the actual jigsaw - it's just clues - took me weeks and I hated every minute of it

SpockPaperScissorsLizardRock · 17/04/2020 13:16

I look at the box. Although I do enjoy the Wasgij ones that are different to the box picture!

Ginkypig · 17/04/2020 13:17

I change depending on my mood or how much of a challenge I want.

I don't really jigsaw now as the cat won't allow it Sad

ineedaholidaynow · 17/04/2020 13:17

I have voted YANBU but thinking about it when I do an online jigsaw I don’t look at the picture.

userabcname · 17/04/2020 13:18

I'm definitely a box-looker (and can't vote on the app so feel free to add mine on!).

SpockPaperScissorsLizardRock · 17/04/2020 13:18

Also, I would love to see a picture of a jigsaw command station. I have a folding thhingie that gets shoved behind the sideboard.

Floralnomad · 17/04/2020 13:18

Depends how big the jigsaw is , 750-1000 pieces and the box is ok , less and it’s not really a challenge for adults .

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 17/04/2020 13:18

It probably depends on the jigsaw, or type of picture, or level of experience of the jigsawer. I did this: m.media-amazon.com/images/S/aplus-media/vc/b3e6bb85-1b76-4231-8218-6f6369d4a2aa.jpg a couple of weeks ago. It was my first ever jigsaw. I thought I'd try it without the box, as a challenge. I lasted about 5 minutes. In the end, I barely survived the thing even with the box.

I'm definitely a boxer.

nowaitaminute · 17/04/2020 13:19

I'm too fast with the box so I get rid of the box for a challenge, and even then I'm fairly fast, I don't go by colour, I go by piece shape!

TwoZeroTwoZero · 17/04/2020 13:19

The picture is on the box for a reason in my opinion.

ElfCakes · 17/04/2020 13:19

Of course I look at the box!!

And it goes without saying, I start with the edges

PianoTuner567 · 17/04/2020 13:19

You are normal. Your friend is extremely strange. I’d keep an eye on her if I were you.

Blueuggboots · 17/04/2020 13:19

YANBU!!!

ElloElloVera · 17/04/2020 13:19

Of course you look at the box!
Gibson’s even include a printed extra picture for reference.
Not looking hints at psychopathy in my opinion Confused

iklboo · 17/04/2020 13:21

DS14...

DOESN'T START WITH THE EDGES!

BeetrootRocks · 17/04/2020 13:22

I am a boxer and pleased to see 97% of mn are!

I suspect back in the mists of time, in this family, a mum at the end of her tether invented this method as a way to keep the kids occupied for even longer. And it's propagated down the generations Grin

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