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To ask my neighbours to remove their wind chimes

136 replies

wouldyouadamandeveit · 17/04/2020 11:24

They don't just have one, they have at least 6 and its driving me insane, litterally. There's no point us putting our music on to try and drown them out as it would have to be at full volume.

It's so bad that I can't even try and conduct a quiet conversation as I'd have to shout to be heard.

OP posts:
vodkaredbullgirl · 28/05/2021 10:08

At least is a thread from last year, not years ago.

roguetomato · 28/05/2021 10:10

What's going on this morning with multiple zombie threads?

Gothichouse40 · 28/05/2021 10:13

I don't have wind chimes. I don't see the need for six. I honestly feel music in the garden should be banned. I have three neighbours who all play their music as soon as the sun pokes it's head out. People just don't have any care for others. It's me me me and my entitlements now. Ive got to be honest and say until this thread, wind chimes had never even occured to me that they may be annoying to neighbours. If your neighbours refuse, I think Id record the noise from my house and ask if they would mind listening to the recording. They are perhaps used to the noise or perhaps don't use their garden.

TopBlogger · 28/05/2021 10:17

What were you searching for @Freida2833 to come up with this gem from over a year ago?!! Are the hundreds, nay thousands, of recent threads not fascinating enough Grin

someone needs a life

SoupDragon · 28/05/2021 10:22

@TopBlogger

What were you searching for *@Freida2833* to come up with this gem from over a year ago?!! Are the hundreds, nay thousands, of recent threads not fascinating enough Grin

someone needs a life

What is funny is that their only other post is from 2018 and was also on a zombie thread 😂
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/05/2021 10:23

That was weird - I was reading down to see people's comments and then the very next one was one of mine! Didn't immediately realise it was a zombie.

If you had railings and stood by them with a stick-with-a-bobble-on (that's the technical term that professional glockenspiel players use), constantly bonging at them, nobody would ever think that in any way reasonable; but if you leave the wind to do your dirty work, transmitting brown noise to all and sundry in the locality, people somehow don't see a problem.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/05/2021 10:24

I'm thinking of starting a thread complaining about zombie threads - and then wait for it to be resurrected by similar complainants in 2023, 2027 and 2029 Grin

Billybagpuss · 28/05/2021 10:29

@LellyMcKelly

Wind chimes are awful things - the only thing More annoying would be someone playing bagpipes their garden.
At least bagpipes stop when they’ve finished practicing.
MistyGreenAndBlue · 28/05/2021 10:45

I'm liking the windchimes as revenge ideas on this thread. But around here they'd be completely drowned out by endless dogs barking, kids screeching, music blasting and next door using his power saw to chop logs every other day.
I'd give my left tit for some nice tinkly windchimes

SwimmingOnEggshells · 28/05/2021 11:35

Genuine question: Why do people hate zombie threads so much? It's always baffled me.

SoupDragon · 28/05/2021 11:37

@SwimmingOnEggshells

Genuine question: Why do people hate zombie threads so much? It's always baffled me.
Because they are bloody annoying.
Notimeforaname · 28/05/2021 11:39

I have loads in my garden. But that's because the drug dealers next door make horrendous noise. So I torment them back at night with my lovely chimesSmile

Blossomtoes · 28/05/2021 11:39

Another bloody zombie thread. Please, please stop this, whoever you are.

SwimmingOnEggshells · 28/05/2021 11:48

@SoupDragon I don't find them annoying at all. Each to their own I suppose.

roguetomato · 28/05/2021 12:21

[quote SwimmingOnEggshells]@SoupDragon I don't find them annoying at all. Each to their own I suppose.[/quote]
It's ok to have odd zombie revived and accidentally respond without realising it.
But if multiple zombie threads were revived by different people at similar time, I don't think it's very pleasant.

SoupDragon · 28/05/2021 12:24

There is also the scenario whereby the OP has managed to move on from an incident which might have been distressing at the time (not this one!) and then gets people @-ing them and dragging it up again.

roguetomato · 28/05/2021 12:27

Whatever the motive behind this, it's not a good one. Totally agree with SoupDragon.

Smoothsoul · 28/05/2021 12:38

@Notimeforaname maybe the op is your neighbour 😂

user4531 · 28/05/2021 13:03

I have a wind chime, one of those wooden ones which is quite loud. I'd also like a tinkly one, but would def stop at two. I was really nervous about getting one, mainly because I've seen the hatred for the things on here and didn't want to bother my neighbours. But I do really love them so much. Fond memories when I was child playing in the garden, my mother had a tinkly one, quite quiet, in the garden. It was in an area shaded by the wind so only ever tinkled gently now and again.

Then I realised I live next to a person who blasts their radio in the garden so loud you can hear it down the street on a regular basis at the first hint of sunshine. You cannot sit out on any sunny day, unless you want to listen to the endless shit rambling of a fucking radio and shit scooter music so loud you could not have a conversation. I also realised they like to rev their motorbike at 10pm and burn fires during the daytime. Basically when they come out, we have to end our time in the garden there as we know what's coming and it's unbearable. My other neighbour has a horrible, and I mean horrible yappy dog that just barks all the time, and screams when the owner goes out. All this has been going on for years - so I thought fuck it, I'll get a fucking windchime which is harmless in comparison! That being said, I take it down of a night time, and in fact only really put it up if I'm in the garden pottering around, though I will put it up permantly in the day and just remove it of an evening.

If any of these neighbours asked me to take it down during the day I'd laugh and of course the answer would be no. Not unless the dog one fancies actually working on her dogs screaming seperation anxiety. Or unless the other person wants to stop blasting the fucking radio.

If I lived next to quiet neighbours and they politely asked me to take some down? Of course I would. I would also move the remaining ones to a quieter area too so there was less jingle.

I guess the point is, just make sure you're not some form of noise polluter yourself, first, and if you're not, it's not unreasonable to ask them if it's actually really bothering you and you're sensitive to it.

If anyone came into my garden to cut mine down, then they'd be caught on camera and yes, I'd report it. It's the principle of entering someone elses property, and vandalising something they own. They'd also maybe have to face my dog, who wouldn't be delighted to see them.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/05/2021 14:12

At least bagpipes stop when they’ve finished practicing.

We have the most terrible, appalling, inconsiderate NDNs ever - they frequently yell, bash and hammer on the wall between us at 3am on a Sunday morning. Luckily for them, I'm already awake - as that's when I have my weekly bagpipe practice Grin

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 28/05/2021 14:23

I have no issues personally with zombie threads that discuss a general principle e.g. 'What do you think of surrogacy?" or "What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever witnessed at a wedding?"

It's just when it's a thread about a single individual's very specific circumstances, that will be ancient history and pointless to discuss months or years after the event. It may be "I'm 45 and longing for one last baby - what should I do?" - where 15 years later, aged 60, the decision will have been long made for her, if she didn't act at the time.

I'm longing to see a baby name thread where somebody asks if they should call their baby Rapunzel-Android-Obsidian the 29th and everybody tells them how utterly ludicrous it would be, but OP persists nevertheless. Then, 20 years later, a new MNer stumbles across the thread and says "DON'T DO IT, OP!!! My crazy 'D'M called me Rapunzel-Android-Obsidian the 29th and I've always detested it - I'm pregnant now and I'm calling my baby Olivia-May" Grin

SwimmingOnEggshells · 28/05/2021 15:32

There is also the scenario whereby the OP has managed to move on from an incident which might have been distressing at the time (not this one!) and then gets people @-ing them and dragging it up again. @SoupDragon you know, I never thought about this and can see how it wouldn't be pleasant having an old thread dug up if you'd moved on.

Topseyt · 28/05/2021 17:54

@SwimmingOnEggshells

Genuine question: Why do people hate zombie threads so much? It's always baffled me.
I've always thought that is a good question. I've been on other forums where you are encouraged to see if there is already a thread about your question rather than simply starting a new one, no matter how old that thread might be.

On here you always get someone dancing up and down shouting ZOMBIE THREAD as if to try and gain brownie points for it.

ChristmasFluff · 28/05/2021 20:03

Gawd, it's not rocket science is it??

With zombie threads, the person searches for info - fine, great, no point reinventing the wheel.

But then they post on the same thread - and very rarely is it a 'how did this turn out, OP., cos I am in a similar position?'

Oh no. It's usually a froth troll.

Then you get loads of genuine people spending precious time and energy responding because they don't notice the date and don't know how to RTFT.

TLDR: Timewaster froth trolls

ChristmasFluff · 28/05/2021 20:05

And yes, I'd like to be able to give a medal to the 'ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE' posters, let alone a brownie point. Bloody service to Mumsnetlkind