To feel inadequate

[WinkyWinkola]

to see that your DH's ex listed as a friend on Facebook is gorgeous, thin and v. successful in the City?

I'm starting to feel v. inadequate actually whether it's unreasonable or not.. . . .. . . . .

there must be a good reason she is his ex..... more to life than being gorgeous, thin and well paid

so i keep telling myself

I personally think you should be pleased your dh has joined facebook - mine thinks it's a complete waste of time! Do you know his password? Not suggesting you spy or anything...

The answers in the question isn't it? It is his EX. He wanted to be with you not her! YANBU, but don't worry so much. You can't judge a book by its cover!

I know his password. It's the same for every thing he uses online. I've only used it to buy nappies online though. As yet.

I know there's a reason they're exes but when things aren't so hot between us (swings and roundabouts), I can just see myself employing the mental torture of comparing. Very daft I know. Sigh.